i like to cook together, and snuggle/movies. i like rainy days spent with someone, ice cream late at nite, and actual conversations. i watch alot of true crime shows and cops. like sports but it is secondary 2 a relationship(college football fan/nascar also). i am not looking to rush into anything cause i've found out it takes time to really get to know a person. no games, just honesty and seeing if we "click' i am a little shy,but like actually getting out to events on weekends, not the bars, but more like flea markets, chili fests, etc. i believe that the little things make the difference, cards left under the pillow, flowers delivered, being there for ur special someone when the've had a rough day, whether it is just to listen or doing the dishes. i am a guy of course, which means i fumble things sometimes, needing hints and direction from a good women in life. i am not afraid of being alone, but dont want to be alone the rest of my life. and i am so sick of women saying they want a good man then falling for the same guys that r just into games. i actually read books, listen to blues, and want to be with someone who isnt possisive, a drama queen, appreciates pda, but also knows a healty relationship requires time apart.