Before you go on please note: Why do I write so much and go into detail about what I'm looking for,because I'm a writer, our time is valuable and I like to skip the nonsense! if you are too rigid not flexible,too set in your ways(and think the definition of an Alpha-Male is an unforgiving, macho,outdated,Neanderthal) or not easy going STOP and donot waste our time! I am allergic to bullsh*players, runners and. liars.i will give you the benefit of a doubt but my dating experience has taught me,if it looks like a duck,quacks like a duck ITS A DUCK! Lol No drug addicts,drunks and if you smoke brush your teeth and wash your mouth! Please! I f you are still here now you can read my profile..It is difficult to depict oneself and do it justice.So if there is something you want to know, just ask..I use to teach High School Drama I was forced to retire when i was diagnosed with Kidney Failure..Two years ago I received a kidney transplant and I'm doing well.Needless to say: I value my life more and it has taken on a new meaning. I intend to live life to the fullest..I've since made a transition to writing and hope to do a film based on the novel I am writing..
I am no longer 17 so I am very realistic about men, love and that sorta thing..up until 7 yrs ago I was married to my best friend/husband for 23 phenomenal years.He passed away and its been difficult to come out of the fog..I like everything from classical music to Rock,country,pop and Jazz..
I Love Foreign films,psychological thrillers,action films.Classics,I love to go out to movies but prefer to watch them all cuddled up with a good pillow or man.I am here to make friends, maybe go on a date or two..if something develops naturally, nice,if I find Love and adventure awesome! if not I will live..
I like to be romanced and kissed a lot! This is not a bakery I don't sugar coat anything.if you don't like the truth don't ask my opinion.I like to read,work out, Basketball, photography,cooking,decorating,bubble baths,moonlight swims,walks in the country.(love, love shopping) I hope to travel more someday..I love to laugh, be told jokes to..My jokes are never funny..I always screw-up the punch lines. I love a good prank as long as it's not on me Lol.I'm somewhat normal.except for the whips, mask and chains I keep in the closet..(Jk I'm a super hero) what were you thinking..I've become more easy going with age..but do not mistake kindness for stupidity! I do have a loving and soft side. If you make it there you will Love it!
Im looking for an intelligent, affectionate,enthusiastic,normal guy with a good sense of humor I don't mind heavy men as long as you are at least 5'9. (a gentleman that knows how to love and be loved!) Someone to add to my already awesome life..at the expense of sounding negative I will say,I'm a mommy , no players please! If you are looking for perfect or someone to lick your ass and chase you, I'm not your girl! If you don't want Drama don't bring it..so many guys say they don't like it then proceed to bring it..what makes me unique is that I can make myself happy! I know I'm sexy and don't make excuses for it! I love it! It's a difficult job but someone has to do it! Lol I can be happy with or without a man because I have God! I want one but only as much as he wants me! I'm basically looking for someone to do things with. One last thing I prefer to be sweet and loving after all I'm a woman we were meant to love not fight and compete like a man..I am at my best when I am loving as I said I prefer to be sweet and loving BUT if you f... With me I will turn into a b....! Lets not waste our time ok if you can't handle the heat....Stay out of the kitchen! I hate that cliche!Thanks for reading my profile!
whatever works for both of us.. Please note: do not consider renting a 1.50 movie and you taking me back to your place to try to get laid a date..Lol Gezzzz Dates like that are only ok if by some miracle we were to become exclusive...AND if you can't even afford to buy me a cup of coffee PLEASE move on! True story that's happen to me, I'm not just being a b....! Oh and please take a bath and have some respect for the way you dress! If I dress nice for you,you can dress nice for me..I'm sorry if I sound mean but everything I have described has been part of my dating experience..Why am I still on here you wonder! For sapiosexual sex of course! Lol I've yet to find one! Lol soon you may not find my profile on here!