Update- I keep being asked these questions, so let me just respond to them here and now.
You look like a bad boy or player, are you? Why are you single, cause you seem great?
Ladies, c'mon read the profile. Do I sound like a bad boy, or player? I'm neither, I assure you. As for why I'm single, there's a couple of reasons.
First, my current occupational schedule is horrific for dating and most women give up trying to make it work. Honestly, I don't blame them, If I was trying to date someone with my schedule, I'd probably give up too. Secondly, I'm selective and looking for exceptional. I want to feel "The Magic" and have it last a lifetime.
Something you should know about me.. I was raised with southern values, and I don't mean Southern California. Lol. That means I believe in values like Chivalry, Respect, Honesty, Loyalty, and Honor. Having those core values doesn't mean that I'm a stuffed shirt however. In fact, I live to laugh, love and enjoy life! I seek out things that inspire me, nurture my soul and make me a better, happier person. That could be something a simple as a great song, or elaborate as a month exploring the sights, smells, sounds, food, people and culture of another country. I'm a very social creature. I love gatherings with family and friends, camp outs, bar-b-ques, parties or nights out on the town dancing, shopping or theater. Yes, I said dancing, which I've been told I'm pretty good at, and shopping, which I'm very good at. Lol. No ladies, I'm not gay, not that there's anything wrong with that. Lol
I'm hoping to find that special connection. You know the one I'm talking about. The kind that after years together, you catch each others eye across the room at a party, see that special smile that's just for you, and your heart beats a little faster.
I have two wonderful, respectful, beautiful little girls, ages 12 &13. I'm not looking for a mother for them. They have one and she's great with them, but you should like kids and be someone that they can admire and love!
Btw, my age is wrong and I can't fix it.
First dates can be nerve wracking, so I try to find places with a fun, lively atmosphere that have good food and drink, but are intimate enough to have conversation and find out if there's any chemistry. That way, even if there's no connection, you still had a good night out! : )