I won't meet you after one or two messages. I'd like to actually have a feel for someone I'm going to meet. Also, if you send me messages using shorthand and incorrect spelling, grammar, etc then I assume one of two things... Either you're too lazy to use spell check (which says a lot), or you simply don't care about how you present yourself to someone you're potentially interested in (again, says a lot). I'm not trying to sound superior here... I simply believe that you only have one chance at a first impression. ;) I'm rarely on here... despite the fact the mobile app seems to show me as almost always on. I typically will only log on when I've gotten annoyed by the notification reminders. So, that means I'm usually logging on and dealing w/20+ messages at a time... It would behoove you to put something of substance in your mails to me, otherwise... I'm VERY likely to move right along to the next message. Again, not being superior... just honest. :)I'm truly a very down to earth kind of chick and absolutely not stuck on myself. In fact, I'm my own worst critic. However, I do know my worth and would like to think that whoever has asked me out, does too. ;)
Please take the time to actually READ my profile. It tells you everything that you need to know to determine if there is even a possibility I will want to chat. ;) I also would like to stress... I have tattoos and piercings (my nose is pierced and I have a dermal anchor by my eye - as shown in my pics). So, if you have an issue with tattoos and/or piercings, then I am not someone for you. Also, I am not a religious person. I consider myself to be very spiritual, but tend to shy away from organized religion as a whole. I have ZERO issues with someone holding their faith close to their heart, but I will not convert or attend your church as a means to pacify you. So, if you're unable to accept my religious viewpoints (or lack thereof) then please save time for the both of us and pass me by. :) Lastly, I have a wretched potty mouth when in the company of those I'm comfortable around. So, if profanity offends you... Again, pass me by. lol ;)
I am on here in the hopes of finding someone to be able to go out with and have a good time. I would like to eventually develop a relationship. I am only interested in meeting genuine and sincere people. I have no set criteria other than, I am NOT interested if you're married, attached or otherwise entangled.
I don't play games and I expect the same from you. I'm not interested in any friends w/benefits situations. That isn't me and not what I'm about. I want something meaningful and real. That doesn't mean I want to jump into a serious relationship right away -- only that honesty, authenticity and sincerity are a must.
Someone who loves music, is adventurous, intelligent and articulate... those are MUSTS, too. If you cannot hold an intelligent conversation, odds are we won't make it past hello. I also have ZERO tolerance for those who are racist or homophobic.
This may come off as somewhat abrasive, but I'm just to the point and want someone to be as blunt, straightforward and clear about what they want as I am. Get to know me and you'll see I'm an extremely compassionate, loving and an altogether well-rounded person with many and varied interests. Despite the dry nature of my profile... I'm actually quite a goofball, have a wicked sense of humor and love talking in slang! :)
I am open to most anything, so long as it will give us time to talk and get to know one another. Don't ask me to a movie the first time we go out. We need to be able to talk, look at one another and see if there is chemistry there. :-)