~~~~~If you lack any Morals, Values, and Integrity, or if you are a Womanizer, or play with women's heart to get what you want, or hide behind a computer and pretend you are someone that you are not, or here to hook up for sex...Please DO NOT Contact Me ~~~~~~~
I have no desire to go on several dates with multiple men. I am selective...and I hope you are too. I am looking for someone between the ages of 30 - 45.
I am Filipina with Chinese, Spanish, and English ancestry. Note: I do have dark brown eyes but I wear dark green contacts, looks nice and natural). I have been told even today that I look like I am in my late 20's or early 30's. Men that I have met in person from here say I look better in person. I was born in the Philippines, came to the states when I was six years old. Grew up in Santa Barbara County...and remained in California. I believe in looking my Best at all times so not only look good for myself but also the Man next to me...I believe in making him look good too and be proud to have me by his side...
I love to joke and laugh. I am a woman of Integrity, Confident, charming, affable, gregarious, lighthearted, compassionate, sensual, sultry, loyal, honest, fun, witty, kind, sometimes loquacious, caring, considerate, thoughtful, nurturing, passionate, affectionate, romantic, warm, loving, "young at heart", classy, sassy, sophisticated when need to be, Simple but elegant (not high maintenance lol). I give people the "benefit of the doubt", I look for the Good in people. I enjoy giving back to the community, especially to the "Homeless", a philanthropist. I wear my emotions on my sleeve, so I am easy to read and easy going, I make the Best of any situation. I am a very Positive person and enjoy making people laugh. I am a little old fashioned and I have a lot of my culture in me.
I have a 23 yr. old son, goes to college full time, and he has a great heart.
I am in the Naval Reserves (17 years), I work in a Technical field in my civilian job for 18 years. - I enjoy indoor/outdoor activities. I love the beach; volleyball; take walks (boardwalks, parks, beach, etc); bike riding; roller blading; ultimate frisbee; Yoga; fishing; romantic evenings; candle light dinners with someone special; etc. Enjoy listening to all kinds of music, reading, live bands are fun, History/Discovery channel, movies, hang out with friends, sidewalk cafes (wine/coffee/lunch/dinner), museums, travel, architecture, enjoy exploring different cultures, people, their history, etc.
I have a lot of interests, too many to list. Basically, enjoy "being in the moment", my surroundings, experience, and the company. Also enjoy all genres of music, including Madeliene Peyroux and Paula Fernandes.
"Behind every good man there is a great woman" (Although I am a humble person, I feel this would be me because of what I have to offer and the type of person I am).
Weekend getaways, have fun, ENJOY LIFE with someone special. Open to anything Healthy and Fun.
If you like going to the gym, it would be great to be your workout partner.
Looking for an ATTRACTIVE man (between 30-44) - Friends first and see how things develop (Essentially Serious/Long Term with the right person)(Physical Attraction and CHEMISTRY are very Important to me - without it, it is difficult to go forward) with a cute personality. Good Looks on the outside is nothing without Inner Beauty (and their character). You can be gorgeous on the outside, but if you lack Inner Beauty, you are VERY UNATTRACTIVE. Someone who has a Great Sense of Humor. Life is too short, there are times to be serious, but you need to laugh at yourself sometimes. Looking for someone who is kind, Confident but Not Arrogant, family man, morals, values, romantic, loyal, honest, warm, sensual, affectionate, passionate, etc. Hmmmm, this probably disqualifies 80% of men on here lol.
The lyrics in the song, "Just the way you are" by Bruno Mars, all the words in that song a male friend had described about me way before the song ever came out. He could have written the lyrics :)
Please do not try to impress me with your muscles (too much muscles is a turn off). A man once emailed me and stated, "Too bad there are so many idiots out there that make it harder for decent guys to earn trust." The biggest complaint from numerous of people here, there are so many flakers that play games and are only looking for a sex encounter. Does anyone take this site seriously besides the "Serial Pen Pals"? LOL...just saying...lol. If you are looking for a sexual encounter, DO NOT CONTACT ME.
Where are all the nice, sweet, gentlemen? ...or are online dating members only for rejects? Lol We are all looking for "Perfection" on pof that does not exist lol. Please do not send me half naked photos.
Turnoffs: A lot of tattoos, a lot of wrinkles & grey hair (sorry), rude, inconsiderate (& lack mannerism), arguing type, & selfishness. Especially majority of men on here try to manipulate women on here to have sex with them. It is pretty scary that some women on here fall victim of it. I do not want to be treated like a piece of meat. If that is your intent, please look elsewhere (Remember, Karma will come back to you).
What I Admire and what I am Attracted to: Gentleman but still can be a man, funny, sweet, and someone who calls (shows initiative) to say hi or goodnight (someone who is into me as I am into him). Not someone who is wishy washy lol. Actions Speaks Louder than Words...
*** I KNOW I MIGHT LIVE FAR FOR MOST MEN, BUT I AM WORTH IT, THE QUESTION IS...ARE YOU? IF I MEET MR. RIGHT, I DO NOT MIND RELOCATING ***
First Date: Romantic evening (candlelight dinner), walk on the beach or park, picnic, museum, window shop near the beach, casual restaurant, comfortable place, with a nice ambiance touch would be nice, but not necessary. It is the company that matters most, not the place. A Plus if you wear slacks & a nice button up long sleeve shirt...that is so sexy to me!
Sorry for the extensive profile ...but I think it is important for people to know what you are about and what you are looking for so we do not waste each other's time. Time is valuable.