Do not message me if you are looking for a hookup. The last two men I was communicating with on here, turned out to be Scammers...so Please be "Real", not a Fake, a Scammer, and a Flake.
Please have photos without sunglasses lol, everyone looks good with sunglasses, lol. Thank you!
The only way to be happy is to love. Unless you love, your life will flash by. Success is nothing without someone you love to share it with.
I am looking for "The One", until then we should all be selective. There is a difference between picky and selective...you have to have standards lol. I have no desire to go on several dates with multiple men. I am selective...and I hope you are too.
I am Filipina with Chinese, Spanish, and English ancestry. I have been told even today that I look like I am in my late 20's or early 30's. I was born in the Philippines, left when i was six years old. Grew up in Santa Barbara County...and remained in California.
I love to joke and laugh. I am a woman of Integrity, Confident, charming, affable, gregarious, lighthearted, compassionate, sassy, sensual, sultry, loyal, honest, fun, witty, kind, sometimes loquacious, caring, considerate, thoughtful, nurturing, passionate, affectionate, romantic, warm, loving, "young at heart", not high maintenance lol. I give people the "benefit of the doubt", I look for the good in people. I enjoy giving back to the community, a philanthropist. I wear my emotions on my sleeve, so I am easy to read and easy going, I make the best of any situation. I am a positive person and enjoy making people laugh.
I have a 25 yr. old son and he has a great heart. For my future husband, if he wants kids, I'm willing to do that for him.
I am in the Naval Reserves (20 years), I work in a Technical field in my civilian job for 20 years. - I enjoy indoor/outdoor activities. I love the beach; volleyball; take walks (boardwalks, parks, beach, etc); bike riding; roller blading; ultimate frisbee; Yoga; fishing; romantic evenings; candle light dinners with someone special; etc. Enjoy listening to all kinds of music, reading, live bands are fun, History/Discovery channel, movies, hang out with friends, sidewalk cafes, great conversations, museums, travel, architecture, enjoy exploring different cultures, people, their history, etc.
I have a lot of interests. Enjoy "being in the moment", my surroundings, experience, and the company. Also enjoy all genres of music.
Weekend getaways, have fun, enjoy life with someone special.
If you like going to the gym, it would be great to be your workout partner.
Looking for attraction and chemistry. Someone who has a good sense of humor. Life is too short, there are times to be serious, but you need to laugh at yourself sometimes. Looking for someone who is kind, confident but not arrogant, morals, values, romantic, loyal, honest, warm, sensual, affectionate, etc.
Talk on the phone first (not days or weeks lol) to see if there is a connection with vibe and chemistry. Prefer not too much texting or talking until our first meet. If we have attraction and chemistry after our first date, then you can text and call as much as you want lol.
Lunch, dinner, outdoor cafe, coffee shop, miniature golf, something fun to break the ice.
Stop waiting for the perfect moment. Whatever you want, pursue it now. Take action towards your goals now, in this very instance because life is too short to wait for the perfect moment.
Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.