Hello Gentlemen. I'm a cute, extremely funny, outgoing, sweet, caring woman. I recently joined a gym to get in shape. I'm looking for that someone special. I want a man who compliments me n bring out the best in me, someone who challenges me to be the best person that I can possibly be but not someone who views our relationship as a competition.
Let me also say this...I'm really disgusted with online dating. I'd say that about 90% of the men I've talked to are just after sex. The messages I get are a huge turn off. I'm on here for one reason and that's to try to find somebody special. I don't want to see pics of you naked, don't want you to text me for a booty call. With that being said let's see who is really on here for the right reasons. Thanks guys :)
I will always be faithful, loyal and honest..and I know people say that they are honest But I really am and don't know how to be anything but..sometimes I'm brutally honest, but I know to try not to hurt anyone's feelings in the process.
I'm very thoughtful and considerate and expect the same in return. I appreciate the simple pleasures in life like a good cup of coffee (even though mine is decaf), the smell of burning leaves in the fall, sitting on the beach by the waters edge feeling the water splash over my toes, cuddling on a rainy/snowy cold night, laying in bed on a Sat/Sun morning w/ someone not having a care in the world and being lazy.
And little things make me happy..guys seem to forget that the littlest thing can make a woman happy and feel special and that are sometimes more important than the big things.
I enjoy going out but also can just hang in and relax. I like to cook a good meal for the person I'm with, as long as I know you will enjoy it and appreciate it. I love to go out to dinner as well. I love to hold hands, cuddle, and kiss.
I want someone who enjoys kissing and knows HOW to kiss. Sorry guys, I say HOW because there is kissing to just kiss and then there is kissing that is so sensual and intimate that it's amazing.
I want someone to listen to me ramble if I had a bad day. If you had a bad day, then I will rub your shoulders and make you feel relaxed. When you hold me in your arms, I want to feel safe. When your with me I want you to feel like there is no place else you would rather be.
What turns me off is if your moody, lazy, inconsistant w/ your attitude n feelings, do drugs or are unemployed. I was in a very long relationship...did the whole happy to be by myself thing and now am ready for something more.
I don't like drama and I don't play games. I LOVE to laugh and have fun but I also know when to be serious.
Music I listen to consists of Dance, Disco, 80's, New Country, Motown, Classical, Jazz, Rock...I don't like heavy metal and not really into rap.
Movies..I like comedies, action, and dramas...I don't like horror/slasher types or sci fi.
I am willing to put effort into any relationship with someone who treats me the way I deserve to be treated. However I'm not willing to do all the work...if your too much work..forget it, I've been there, done that. I don't ever want to be in a relationship feeling totally drained ever again. I will not settle this time around.
AND men don't ask me about sex before we barely had a conversation...FYI, women still want men to act like gentlemen. I am a grown woman and don't have a problem talking about it but when you don't know someone..it's a huge turnoff. Btw....I have cats...so if your allergic to them...good luck fishing.
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