Im shy at first, Someone said this about me once. "John i don't get you, ive seen you run through hell, jump out of plains, zip line into sh*t storms. Ive known you for along time old friend, no fear. So why cant you apply that to women?."...lol..Its stuck with me all of these years. I'm down to earth, listen well. My friends don't have to question my loyalty nor my respect to them. They also know I don't like being a side order. Meaning if you have a list of people your talking to and your being shady. Just don't waste my time .