I readily admit that I'm a type-a girl. I'm easy going but very driven professionally. I work in the Northern Virginia area so I don't get a chance to meet many people except clients, which I don't want to date. The one constant thing in my adult life is that I've been blessed with a good job that I love (most of the time) and doing something I'm good at. It's kept me sane despite any obstacles I've faced. Many men have been intimidated by the fact that I'm self-sufficient, emotionally strong and capable of taking care of myself. Please don't perceive this as bragging - I'm just trying to say that even though all phases of my life aren't as complete as I'd like, at least I'm trying to stay comfortable. Or sometimes comfortably miserable - ha. In all seriousness I've sacrificed some things for this existence, but I don't regret what I've done to be here. However, like everyone, I want to be cared for emotionally and physically and be able to share a life with someone that wants the same things as myself.
I'm not a swinger, serial dater, cheater, or liar - just a normal girl looking for the same. I don't want to date a guy way too young because he hasn't experienced life as I have, or a guy too old that isn't able or wants to get out and enjoy life. It's like the three bears, I just need the one that's just right. While I believe that physical attraction plays a key role in the scheme of things, a strong, confident, assertive personality also attributes to the overall factors of chemistry between two people. I'm very old school and believe a man should ask a woman out. I will never take advantage of a man asking me out and do not need or expect that, but I will never respect a man that is so cheap he doesn't act like a gentlemen.
I'm an avid yogi. I'm also a boxing and hockey fan. I like to scuba dive, travel, hang by the pool, listen to music (except country), read/movies or just chill out and have a martini. I'm not hard to please but the one thing I'd really appreciate is someone who is honest and really wants to get to know someone. A little intellectual stimulation would also be nice. I'd like to hang with someone who isn't in a rush and would like to do some fun things together. If that's you, please reply. If not, good luck with your search.