Bet you don't make it past the first paragraph. :) I'm here thinking a good thing can happen anywhere if you let it.
I'm interested in meeting someone I enjoy being with, spend time with do things and have fun together. Someone I feel something towards hopefully end up in a good relationship with communication and trust. A connection, if i'm interested I'm going to ask to see you to find that connection. I don't know why this is so strange human contact without the game of chasing messages to comfort in texting first but if you're interested and ok with that I would love to hear from you. Whether you meet today or 3 months after messages or text its going to be the same person so why wait and who likes to sit in traffic, go to the front of the line. A guy never lies when texting, they have bullsh*t detectors on them now as an app, it beeps if they're fakers. Do you like sarcasm:) Chemistry, kindness, sincerity, things i'm looking for only can be found in your presence. I'm ready thats why i'm here and would like you to be. I do find it hard to meet someone I feel something towards but when I do, I don't feel the need to play games about how I feel and I like when someone shows their interest. If you're just looking to be entertained, waisting time with whoever will take you out please don't keep reading, this is only meant for the wholehearted looking for something more.
Short version, searching for a genuine relationship type girl that just simply wants to be with a good man. Feel free to tackle the long long version>> are you sure you can handle this, ok. I have a tendency to wear my mind on my sleeve. Im online to find that nice girl Im not going to find in a club or bar. Looking for more then just going somewhere drinking. Guess I lost a few on that. Thats good. Yes it can be fun drinking, I just don't want it to be what the relationship is all about and i'm not one to drink and drive. Im looking to find that girl I can trust and plan fun times and end up enjoying our time when nothing is planed. I wish to do more things see more places. Lets go to a museum, in Chicago. I know I should just say what I like to do and music I like to listen too but I like to be honest I don't want to play games and If I find "the one" hobbies, goals, interests may change.
Im just looking for something honest that will last more then random dates. Someone who tries to take care of them self and does some form of exercise just a little something ok, is a good person but don't take crap from anyone has respect for them self is not deceitful, has a sense of humor. Distance, I tend to think the person I might be happy with might not be in my area so I guess if we meet and like eachother enough will figure it out. Age well i'm not sure what my range should be, think it should be somewhat close in age. I work with a bunch of women and they say it don't matter but I probably won't initiate a message with someone under 28. I work hard, debt free, Im happy, aware, smart at times funny at times, tough when need to be, always caring, like to be playful.
If you would like to know anything just ask you will get the truth. I don't have my own place I rent a room in someones house, have my reasons. Ask if you need to, sometimes that matters to some so I say it and ask if you need certain qualities i'll tell you if I have them. Communication works if you communicate. If you're online because you hooked up with every guy in town, no thank you. I am not looking to go around humping anything that moves. Yes I said humping. Not interested if you have hooked up with random guys from bars/parties or don't remember if you did. If a big wallet makes you happy if you're looking for money i'm not it, would need to work together. I'v walked away from money so It don't matter what you have just who you are. The prettiest girls have gotten ugly quick when I found them not good hearted, I can pick anyone that thinks their hot sh*t apart. I'm all about feeling good about someone. I care and try to be a good person cant say I was never a bad boy but i'v taken all nonsense out of my life. I know trying to tame a guy has allure sorry. I'm bullsh*t free and have my self together if you look for that. I can be trusted and counted on and ask for the same. I like to have someone affectionate and caring someone that I can work out anything with. I think similar interests are good but sometimes opposites attract, guess you never know till it happens. Don't mind taking things slow after seeing you in person but life don't wait for us to take our time so I do get the urge to jump right in and find out if we will make each other happy. If we do then will have all the time we need. Compromise is good...
First date, well of course tv dinners in my van down by the river:0) Maybe we should just meet first a few min. to talk friendly with no major intentions before a date. A walk any public place, drink or sat/sun morning breakfast. You pick one by you or I'll say by me, Don't be a pain in the ass to meet me. Truth, i'm not good at first dates I was fine when I was just picking up girls hanging with friends and not thinking about a future but now that I don't want to play games and I mean what I say I have become quiet shy and nervous or I come on to strong or say everything at once and scare away.
I have nothing but good intentions.
Meeting can be awkward but if we like eachother will have fun once we get past the beginning. Once i'm comfortable and myself you wont wanna live without me HAHA. I've never meet anyone that I didn't make laugh once I got to know them. I'v been single, just hung out with my friends, been in relationships, just dated, I definitely want and ready for a relationship. I'v grown apart from my friends what they do so mainly I go to work with a full and part time job exercise a little hang with family and keep my eyes open for you. My down side I guess is I don't make a lot of money and don't hangout with to many people, If thats ok with you will be good. I say all that because some girls need a guy with a lot going on but when I did I didn't care much about being in a relationship and when I didn't care I had plenty of girls wanting me, why is that, now i'm a better man then I ever was and it's hard to find them. I like the kind of person I am now and the kind of women I search for will to. I know many "girls just wanna have fun" But i'm sure there's a couple that want something good. I'm single because i'm looking for the right girl not just a girl so I figured I have to be open communicate not just settling to just be with someone or I wouldn't be here, lucky you :) I don't message or respond to just anyone so if I do with you I think there's a chance. My intentions are simple to find someone non-defensive that seems nice on here meet see if there's a feeling, see if we enjoy each-others company, earn trust, grow into something meaningful. If you made it through the run on sentences bad grammar and just plain rambling Leave Message if I'm for you but I think unless you're looking for a specific quality things workout or don't when you're with someone. People are different love is a funny little thing just make sure you're true and will win in "the end"
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