I'm updating my profile as I now would like to meet someone whose intellect, abilities, capabilities and talents yet undiscovered can be fully allowed to raise to the surface.
I have lots of hobbies, goals, aspirations and feel that I'm a uniquely sensual and engaging woman, I recognize that this really doesn't matter since beauty and brains are really in the eyes of the beholder and what we see and get isn't always what it seems.
Not looking for one-night stands or guys to fool around with...you'd be surprise how many opportunities some women get to compromise their standards. I'm trying to maintain mine by not meeting people who don't have the same goals as I have.
I'm down-to-earth, warm and friendly, yet optimistic and imaginative.
I seek a man confident enough to recognize his value and to be capable of approaching someone kind, non-judgemental and serious about meeting someone. I have my own life but want a man who is equal parts attentive and independent.
I'm not looking for a new male friend to hang-out with. Nor am I searching for a replacement dad. I think texting and calls are ways meant to communicate not as the only means of Communication.
I want a man who is open to sharing his time and his heart. And that means he makes time for the woman in his life. U don't need to be in my day all day but I want you in my life, and that means time doesn't really matter outside of work and our responsibilities that demand of us.
I'm race-open as long as you don't have ethnicity hang-ups.
Please also know that if I don't respond to you, it is most likely because while you may be a terrific human being, you may not be my type on first glance. Not to be judgemental but beauty and handsomeness is beyond appearance to me but I recognize that while I might not be everyone's type, please respect that you may not be my type either.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I think that although I'm full of surprises, this is a terrific opportunity for a man to show me what he's working with. I'm a woman that likes to be pleasantly surprised with original thought and approach to making a memory and lasting impression so, as long as the idea allows us to feel comfortable and safe then I expect it to be really fun. The last things I want to do are coffee in a coffee house or a movie because I can have coffee with anyone and I can't get to know a man watching a screen with something that interests me more than he might (just a hint).