Do you believe Love is a feeling or a choice? This subject is very elusive, because the feelings, passion, desire and thoughts are all present when love is; but does that mean love is a feeling? I personally believe love is a Choice. You can not make someone love you, it is their choice. How can you forgive someone you love? You choose to forgive which shows Love. So the difficulty comes when trying to separate choice and desire or will. But that's enough deep thinking. On to Who am I...
My name is Joshua. I am a Christian, and that means that I try to be as much like Jesus the Christ as possible; not some judgmental bible thumper. I do like talking about my faith, but believe everyone has a choice to make and it's not my place to make it for them. This also is not just a part of me, but in every part of me. I'm not expecting every person I date to be a Christian, but it is a foundation I look for in a relationship.
I have lived in China for over 4 years. Some in Hubei province; some in Shandong. I am just moving into Suzhou. I've never been before and look forward to where this part of my life will lead. I love to watch movies, share stories and just to relax. Some of my most dear times were out in the countryside just feeling peace. Love nature. I've been to the top of Tai Shan and watched the sun rise. Although I don't get out as much as I use to and old soccer injuries have taken a toll on me.
I will say, that I've found someone that I'm in a relationship with, and she has my attention and interest. Although, if you are interested in being friends or would just like to talk some, I'll still check this site everyone once in a while. Thanks and happy fishing.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I guess a birthday party is a good first date.... ;)