Simple: Be myself, let things take its course. Idk, do you think every guy is the same or do you think taking a chance could pan out.
Oh, and as a disclaimer, if you can ride in a car with me, navigate through music such as pop, country, old school rap, today's hip hop, rock and oldies, and know the words to at least half of whatever song comes on randomly, then you might be the one lol.
I kinda am blunt on some things such as this: If you don't like honesty, block me, cuz I'll stop telling you the truth when you stop lying to yourself.
The only thing beyond the kid is getting things moving on with me. Weight training, resistance training, and HIT (high intensity training) are now a daily adventure where I get told that I must be doing steriods from my trainer because I put on 15 of muscle in 17 days, lol, personally I hate it because I got into weight training to lose weight, not gain weight, but you know what they say, put on muscle is how you burn fat, then a comet better smash into me and get this blaze a started. My work has avenues on how to go up, even a fast lane, currently taking seminars to get my stage fright completely conquered, I mean I can stand and talk if I know you but when I can see everyones free thinking opinions gushing into the air by the blank looks on their face, I kinda get a bit tense. I did notice something watching my son play. His approach to any kid is "Do you want to play with me?" simple right? But the thing I got from it is the innocence from him thinking that this person is like me and playing is fun. If I could capture that same mentality about letting peoples opinions not subdue me then I think that would elevate me. The only part about me that I am not sure of is this lawyer side of me, I could give a damn less who hears me when I become passionate or stand up for something and the funny part is that I'm good, like really good at controlling the conversation and the way people think to perceive me because it seems so natural to me. Anyways, I am ranting, nobody ever reads any of this. Have a great day.