The last book I read: "Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome - America's Legacy of Enduring Injury and Healing" by Dr. Joy DeGruy
Hello King! A little about me:
I love water as I'm an aquarius. I am kind hearted and loving. I am a little shy but when I'm ready you cannot stop me, especially if I enjoy your presence. I'm working on my Masters degree in Early Childhood Development with a Special Education Credential. I have goals and aspirations that exceeds a MA degree or even owning my own business. I need a man who can handle that. I am an activist at heart and love social justice work.
I want a guy who can stand against the rest, someone who will be honest and true in our friendship/relationship. I want someone who loves themselves but not more then they love God. Someone who does not play games and can be an adult about everything. I need the kind of man who can honor God and myself by not pushing sex on me. I want someone who can make my heart smile.
I would like a man that I can cater to, laugh with and share myself with. I'd like someone who can live on the edge and can be spontaneous yet responsible. I would like someone that I can cuddle with and admire as a man. More than anything else, I'm looking for a true friend.
I was praying, telling God how I was ready for a mate and all. I heard a voice in my heart say, "Can I trust you with someone else's heart?" I thought that was pretty deep. God you can trust me with someone else's heart. I will not intentionally hurt him with my words or actions, I will praise him, I will love him through his faults and hope he can do the same for me. I will lift him up when others belittle him. I will carry his heart with care. I will encourage him when he is discouraged. I will keep him in my prayers. I will love him and trust him, I will be his friend.
So King, my heart awaits you!
The woman I desire to be is found in Proverbs 31:10-31
King James Version (KJV)
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
On a first date I would love to go out and take a walk near the beach although I'm realizing that I am no longer in California so that may be out of the question, lol! However, lately I have enjoyed first dates just playing a little billiards (pool). Just being with that special someone is just about enough. A place where we can talk and flirt a little, or a lot ??