The last book I read: "Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome - America's Legacy of Enduring Injury and Healing" by Dr. Joy DeGruy
2/18/15 was my birthday and I turned the big 4-0. I've decided to change my profile, just about every word.
Here you go:
No, I'm not interested in being your sex buddy. Yes, I've worked hard in keeping myself sexually so I wouldn't have a child outside of marriage, so the fact that you don't want kids because you have some already is not very fair. You say you don't want to play games so let's not. I'm ready for a long term relationship. I prefer a godly man who goes to church. Growing up I was the sweet, shy girl, now things has changed.
Also, I'm not interested in dates that only consist of me coming over to your house or you coming to mines. I like to be treated like a lady not a hoe. I guess you can say I'm old school, which is sad because women should be treated better then a sex object, that should never get old. Also, if you are on a dating site, I assume that you want to date. If you're just here for sex pass me please.
I think men are a blessing from God. It is my desire to love, cater to and praise my man. I want a relationship, I don't want to play. I want a guy who is not afraid of commitment. Look, I'm sorry about whatever it was that you went through in your last relationship that didn't go right. Please don't make me or any other woman suffer for what some other woman did. If you're ready for a great gift, I'm here.
On a first date I would love to go out and take a walk near the beach although I'm realizing that I am no longer in California so that may be out of the question, lol! However, lately I have enjoyed first dates just playing a little billiards (pool). Just being with that special someone is just about enough. A place where we can talk and flirt a little, or a lot ??