The_ONLY_Unique_1: Never give up
Non-smoker with Average body type
Goose creek, South Carolina
51 year old Woman, 5' 0" (152cm), Christian - other
Caucasian Pisces with Blonde hair
The_ONLY_Unique_1 is looking for a relationship.
Associates degree
Coffee Snob
Legal Assistant

Lookin for fun

I am Seeking a Man For Friends
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? My children are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

ReadingThe beachSunsets
Action moviesPlaying with my dogWalkin in the moonlight
SurprisesCreating music cdsWine tasting
Makin friends smile

About Me
OK, so 2014 is going to be better, or maybe I should say different than 2013. I’ve decided to reconstruct my profile. So here goes:

First - "Don't let your history interfere with your destiny" = good words for singles to live by.

I am a strong independent professional woman looking for a guy who can show love, passion, tenderness and interest in my likes/dislikes as well as his own. If you can’t kiss with passion, don’t stop here. If you can’t make time for me, don’t continue reading. I can be your best friend and a sounding board, but if you can’t make room for me in your life, thank you for checking my profile out, but keep looking. I’m an up-front type of person and have learned it’s best to be that way. Oh, yeah, I am really short - so if you're looking for a "tall leggy" women, keep lookin'.

Sometimes I am a kooky blond, like the time I put a bottle of wine in the freezer to chill, and forgot about it until 3:30 a.m. when it exploded in the freezer…thank goodness it was a cheap bottle! Or the time I was boiling some eggs and forgot about them while talking to a neighbor outside. Good thing I had the dog with me outside because she would have had a heart attack when those eggs started exploding all over the kitchen. Yeah, I was cleaning boiled egg off the wall and ceiling for days! But I’m not always that blond.

If you had a soundtrack of your life, what songs would represent different periods of your day? Here is mine. Work would be “Sandstorm” by Darude, “Right Now” by Van Halen. The evenings would be something like “Gypsy” by Fleetwood Mac, or if it were a romantic night maybe “Sentimental Lady” by Bob Welch, but I’m “No Angel” as Dido explains. So you can see my love of music ranges from 60’s classic rock up to some heavy metal to odd tunes such as “Copperhead Road” by Steve Earl to “Madness” by Muse.

Only positive guys need apply. I am unique in that I've learned how to have fun with life and not dwell on the "less-than-positive" aspects that one must endure. I don’t “do” drama either. Life is too short to deal with stupid stuff.

What is reality? Is it continuing to just WISH for what you want/need in life? Or is it going AFTER it? Sometimes we get stuck in the endless loop of "what society expects" us to do. Is that REALLY how you want to live your life? Not me. I'm looking for the REAL reality, not just games we are expected to play. If you like something, if you want something - go after it. Go after it until you either decide that is NOT what you want, or until you succeed in obtaining it.

Hobbies: I like to go to the beach, the gym or work on my patio full of plants, if it's a rainy day, a movie is always nice. I am not too much of a big shopper because I don't care for big loud crowded places, and I’m not materialistic.

Guys, if you have read this far, and still want to contact me, I ask one very important thing. Make sure you can spell. I am a legal assistant/paralegal, and even though I am not a perfect speller, I know that if you see a little red line under a word, it is misspelled. Put your cursor on the word, right click the mouse and chose the CORRECT spelling of the word. A message with poor English and poor spelling gives me a very poor first impression of you. It says you do not take the time to pay attention to what you are doing or what message you are actually sending.

REMEMBER: A lie doesn't become a truth, wrong doesn't become right & evil doesn't become good, just because it is accepted by the majority.

First Date
Coffee, or an "adult beverage" and conversation, just in a quiet place. Getting to know someone is about communication about each other.

Gifts Received

Mail Settings
To send a message to The_ONLY_Unique_1 you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 40 and 55.
Live in United States
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
You must have a picture to contact this user.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke