I want someone real that knows exactly what they want and isn't for all the games!
My names Alexa, but everyone calls me Lexy! Im 25 years old and an aquarius. I live in South Jersey, about 20 minutes from Atlantic City. I love long walks, nature, beautiful scenery, long drives, adventures, exploring new places, learning about the most random things. I have a weakness for tattoos and piercings..and New York accents make me melt like an ice cube!
"I want someone who I can text at any point of the day and tell them how happy they make me. Maybe send them a terrifying face when I’m at work and have them send just as terrifying a face back to me to keep me from boredom. I want someone to text me goodnight and good morning. I want someone who accepts me in my entirety - flaws and all - so that I can turn around and accept them as well. I want someone to go on silly dates with, someone who will frolic with me in Forest Park or the Botanical Gardens. I want someone who will hold my hand wherever we go and eat ridiculously obnoxious amounts of pizza with me. I want someone who will play video games with me and watch endless amounts of movies with me while we cuddle and randomly tickle each other. I want someone who will hold me when I cry and make me feel safe and wanted. I want someone who will be there for me so I can be there for them whenever they need me. I want someone who can keep up with my quips and biting sarcasm and fire it right back at me so I can give them ‘that look’ and we can laugh and kiss and smile about how fantastically witty and ****y we can be with each other. I want someone who will drink down an entire bottle (or two…or three) of wine with me and turn on a stupid movie so we can not watch it together. I want someone who will think I’m beautiful even if I know for a FACT I look like complete and total shit. I want someone who would be as happy waking up to my bedhead as I would be to theirs. I want someone who wants me as much as I want them. I want someone to care about me, to worry about me, and to think about me. I just want someone to be as perfect for me as I am for them.. so we can be perfect together regardless of what the rest of the world may think. Is that too much to ask?"- Annonymous
***I started a LGBT group on Facebook to connect all of us south jersians together! 200 members and climbing.. just search "South Jersey LGBT" & join us! ***
I'm definitely looking for a relationship, but i'm not "searching"..I guess you could say I'm waiting for love to find me, that seems to be when the best connections happen! I'm looking forward to feeling those butterflies and nervousness again.. that perfect bond of having a lover who's your best friend and feeling contentness and comfortability. People who give up on things easily or think of everything as disposable or replaceable is a huge turn off. You have to appreciate things ,and the way you treat the things in your life says a lot about the way you treat people. Im super romantic.. holding hands, long romantic walks on the beach under the stars,spontaneous date nights, breakfast in bed, cute picnics, cuddle fest movie nights, I'm fine going out or spending time on the couch curled up.
I'm a total lover yet fiesty, super girly and feminine yet I can get down and dirty and do a man's job in my damn heels.
I believe in being affectionate but not clingy and that everyone definitely is entitled to their own space, time with their friends, etc. We thrive upon social contact as humans and its no good to completely cut out contact with friends because you're in a relationship like some people do. I can't stand that. At the same time, wanting your significant other there because they are your best friend is lovely.
I'm full Italian 100% so cooking is like breathing, I love to cook and bake. Love feeding people. Im very femme, I practically live in heel and I love to get dressed up nice even just going to the store, because it makes me feel beautiful and feel good about myself inside and that's what matters...but I can still get down and dirty and kick it in some sweats and a beater or throw on something to go ruin during a mudding trip.I'm just THAT girl!
I know what I want in someone and I ve been patiently waiting for it.
I am and always will be 420 friendly, although I don't smoke anymore myself.
I drink socially. Love to have fun...without getting sloppy. A sloppy drunk falling all over is a huge turn off. So is a loose drunk...loose sober is even worse!
Music is life, I'm always listening to something. I prefer alternative rock, folk,ska,indie music,classic rock, rap, r&b and even some country. I love music!
Anything where we can really talk and get to know each other. Breakfast and coffee, brunch, classic romantic dinner date, walk through the park, beach, boardwalk...anything !