I'm a dad first, but I only get my kids 7 out of every 14 days, so that leaves me with time to do the grown up things I like. Over the last 5 years, I have discovered that I don't have a physical "type". We are either attracted physically to someone, or we aren't. But to find something real, there has to be more than just the physical. The three traits that I find that I actually yearn for are #1. A sense of humor (Not only to think I'm kind of funny, but to have a sense of silliness themselves) #2. An optimistic outlook on life. #3. A love for children, whether you have children of your own or not.
Not having those 3 traits, isn't a bad thing, it just means we won't match.
So, if I haven't ran you off at this point, I'd love to hear from you.
I think lunch would be great. That way we can get that initial meeting done in a casual atmosphere, cause after all, a girls gotta eat. Having a quiet dinner and then a comedy club is cool too, 'cause I do love to see a woman laugh.