are all these dating sites the same. You know it's funny- everyone hates the bar scene or the club thing because people want "to get to know each other". But it's almost as if these sites are even more superficial. you see a picture and then you decide whether to read on or not. Hasn't anyone ever heard of not judging a book by it's cover? Big girls have big hearts. I am an outgoing spontaneous girl who will try anything at least once 'cause hey.. you never know. I enjoy darts and pool, museums, concerts, plays.i love cruises and exotic islands but have a great time when i'm in atlantic city or vegas. I like spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy all types of music and love a great concert or a broadway show. I also enjoy going out for a great meal but I enjoy cooking one just as much. I am looking for someone who enjoys the same. Someone who can have a lot of fun but be themselves.