I'm a mature divorced single parent who lives with a very handsome boy. I'm retired military from the US ARMY and after that long journey am looking to live a normal life. All friends are welcome but bear in mind that I really dislike DRAMA, it only hinders effective channels of communication. I'm from Puerto Rico and enjoy a lot of music, I'm always singing because it gives me the serenity to deal with every day problems and situations; it's an internal balance and harmony like no other.
I'm a hands-on type of guy, I like doing things myself, especially when it comes to car repairs. I've built a computer or two in the past and can hold my own in that area. I enjoy the simple things in Life and refuse to spend the night's wasted in a bar and actually have the ignorant belief that it's what "fun" is all about...
***As an update I have a requirement that you already own your home or are not in a position(like myself) to buy one in the near future. I want to avoid the possibility of getting replaced by a house again. LOL!!!***
Common courtesy is contagious; if you get an offensive message? you feel insulted, if you get a decent one? atleast a simple "no thanks" would be nice and guys would not have to become so rude. Unless ofcourse you're royalty... Are you royalty?
I never have a predetermined set first date protocol. I believe it should come with some relative spontaneous thought, that way it will give it a more relaxed sense of calm to avoid the discomfort of regular formalities. However good taste in selecting what to do is of utmost importance and certainly requires a personal touch...