I often sit home and wonder exactly what it is that women are looking for and what is it that I have to offer. I've read many profiles on this site and it seems that the majority of women are searching for an, honest, trusting guy that can communicate. One that can make them laugh. Yet, many won't get past a guys appearance because he may not be exactly what they are looking for. I've found that if you can leave your comfort zone, even just a little bit, it can be amazing at what you find. Friends and family often ask me why I'm still single. To be honest, I've been single for a very long time. My answer to them is that no one ever wants to give me a chance. Pure and simple. I have a good job, own my own home, have a newer car. I'm missing companionship. That hand to hold. Someone who tells me that I mean something. Take a chance, you may be pleasantly surprised.
My likes and interests are varied. I enjoy hiking the many trails around Meriden and am always looking for new places to go. I enjoy the local wineries, road trips, the occasional beach trip, or finding that little out of the way place for a bite to eat. I enjoy going to Cape Cod and I'm lucky enough to have a place to use when I go. It would be nice to have somebody to go with. I'm at a point where I know that if you don't get past my photos in the profile, then this is all a waste of time. I do prefer to sit and talk and have an actual conversation in order to find out about one another. I don't know why that is so difficult. If any part of my profile may spark even the smallest curiosity, then reach out to me. Both of us have nothing to lose.
Please note, I'm 5'5". I have dated a woman who is 6 feet tall so I do not have an issue with height. I do understand that many of you taller women do have an issue with dating a guy who is shorter than you. But you never know what you may be missing.
Thanks for your time,
p.s. If you are curious, I am that honest, respectful guy with a sense of humor. I believe in having a one on one relationship. I don't like to share.
Take a chance.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A simple meet over a coffee, tea or drink. Light and casual. This is open for discussion. Or we can just share a box of caramels. :)