The thing I hate about this online dating deal: I will admit, I am not good at initiating online conversation. In person and on phone, I'm great, but this here. How do you grab someone's attention, especially when you know the mailbox of women are filled with an abundance of who knows what? Eventually, a man gets tired of trying to be original after no responses, since it seems looks matter more than personality at first glance. But anyway-
What makes me who I am? I guess you could say I'm something like a bit cheesy..really 'Nacho' average guy. Get it? Chivalry isn't dead, because I'm still alive. My old man raised me right so I do believe in opening doors for ladies, pulling out your seat, and corny romantic gestures. But please dont get it twisted. That doesn't make a man weak. a man should know how to love and a woman shouldn't make a man feel less of man for being affectionate and what not. I respect and protect. I'm still trying to figure this out: What is it you all really want? As for me, I know exactly what I want. I'll give you a few of what they are.
Kind, good sense of humor, comfortable with herself, smart, educated, relaxed, no drama, silly when she wants to be, optimistic, positive, ambitious, healthy, respectful and family oriented. Also a sense of self with the hopeness to teach ad well as learn. I think we all have something to offer once we find that compatible partner. I'm not much into the club scene. However, I'll get out every now and then for a seven and seven on something chill after a long weeks work. Maybe once in a while if my lady wants to go out and dance a bit (whatever makes her happy). Im also cool with laying back on the couch watching some netflix. I'm into action, horror, comedies, and some drama, but if you make me watch romantic stuff, you'll have to watch some of my likes. ;-) I also don't discriminate. Ethnic preference to me is open.
I know how to cook, I clean for myself, do laundry, and all the above. My ambition is on fire and I have a tunnel vision for success. I've spent the last few years working hard to get to where I am career wise, and recently took a 3 month vacation to travel around the U.S. and Ghana, Africa to find peace and soul search. I feel very much in tune with myself and my environment. I'd just like someone to enjoy what life has to offer with me. If thats you, send me a note.
And I smile and laugh a lot. Im really positive and outgoing regardless of what my picture shows. I'm just not too much of a picture taking person but soon enough I'll take some with my big kool aid grin.
*All my pics are recent (last few months) but I just cut my locks off about a month ago. Will post more soon