I try to be in control of my own destiny, but we all know that's impossible. I've been treated like crap by women and honestly I'm hard to get close to. But persistence pays off. I'm told I'm funny, and clever, and probably too intelligent for my own damn good. I can also be the biggest jerk and I'm not afraid to admit that because I have good reasons. I try to be the center of attention though at times because it's probably to fulfill some need of feeling liked. I'm a big dude, so people I don't intimidate by my size will probably be intimidated by my wit. If you message me try being a little more original than "hey". That's what girls say when they just want to put as little effort forward as possible to get laid, which I'm all for but don't imagine that it'll have a fairy tale ending. I'm also a cuddly s.o.b. too do there's that.