I am 39 and I have 2 kids, both boys 16 and 13 I've only been married once, work full time, spend weekends with my kids often, Have my own house, Have a modest working vehicle, try to be practical, yet like to have fun.. I know what I want in a woman, I like a woman who has a job, cares about her body and If she has kids takes good care of them. and would treat mine right if I bring her around mine.I have been hurt before so I will be more cautious this time around. I don't drink, but I don't mind being around it I like having a good time, if you like to drink that's not a problem for me..At times i can be shy at first but will loosen up as i get to know a person, am confident in many situations and believe in myself, even though I have made a lot of mistakes in my life and still make some. I always try to be honest and don't wanna hurt anyone, I strive to be kind and patient. Have a good relationship with my teenage boys and don't have drama with their mom (my exwife). I'm a hard worker most of the time, make sure the bills are paid. And enjoy some hobbies, enjoy going to movies, and tend to get into TV shows more when i have someone there with me and I can be a decent cuddler at times.. I am getting back into exercising and have lost some weight and wanna shed some more, but if you are looking for a guy with chizzled abs you can go to the next one. I like a variety of music pop, some rock Country on ocaission and enjoy a good football game on Saturdays or Sundays..I think about starting a business at times or doing something where i could set my own schedule, be my own boss, and make a really good living So I may get there one day, but for now I keep the 9-5.. Well you know what to do if your interested..