SIngleSweetLady: Dating with a Purpose
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Rohnert park, California
31 year old Female, 5' 3" (160cm), Catholic
Mixed Race, Capricorn
SIngleSweetLady is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors Degree
Hopeless Romantic
social work/education/healthcare/etc...

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Under 1 year How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Other Second Language Spanish

About Me
I'm so over this I don't want to date anyone.

I would like to say all the right things and find my match but I always seem to say the wrong thing. I rather be myself than someone fake. I'm like a open book once I get to know someone I just have to warm up to them. I'm not perfect an no one is. I admit to my mistakes when I notice them and apologize. I'm never going to be perfect I am just going to be me.

I have a huge heart people tell me considering what I do for work. I work with people that have all kinds of disabilities,behavioral problems,drug and alcohol problems,teaching kids with and without disabilities,sub teaching,helping old people. I probably do other stuff I just can’t remember at the moment. So, all day I am getting yelled at or I have someone trying to hit me which is never fun. I know it sounds lame but I love my job even though I get injured and scared sometimes. I'm a big supporter of disability rights.

I'm not a health freak and far from it but I can be a picky eater. I'm a pescatarian but more on the vegetarian side. I don't eat fish but that's the best category for me. I know you're probably thinking why is she talking about this. Surprisingly there are a lot of place I won't eat at and people like to go out to dinner.I just like to stick basic All American food, Mexican or basic sushi. Just a tip if you ask me out to dinner.

In my free time I like to explore new places and spend time in nature. When I can find a partner I like to play tennis or golf. I like hiking and going on long walks. Someday I would like to get a dog when I have more time to spend with it. I enjoy spend time in my garden taking care of my plants just relaxing. I love to be creative it's a passion I have had since I was young. I'm really into self expression but not a fan of tattoos. I love technology and I even have a degree in the field.

I'm a very traditional person in many ways but I have modern ways as well. Some of my views are very conservative and others are liberal. I'm open minded to a point. I’m Catholic traditional but leaning towards Evangelic Christianity these days. I don’t like going to church on Sunday’s but I do go during the week sometimes.

When I think to myself why am I on here? I'm looking to meet Mr. Right not Mr. Right Now. I like the strong silent type. I'm not looking for perfect just perfect for me.

I love to learn new and interesting things so I like to attend classes and seminars often in my free time. I tend to work a lot at times. I work for quite a few companies doing things that might be related of things that have nothing to do with the other. I like to plan for the future so I always have backup jobs encase of an emergency. I try to get a new a new skill every year to be as employable as possible.

I’m seeking a nice man with old fashioned values and knows a man’s place and how a man should act. Not looking for someone fake and doesn’t know what it means to be a man. A real man is loyal, honest, trust worthy, can have a conversation without coarse language. A real man has high moral standards and leads by example. A man has compassion for others. A man should be a chivalrous gentleman that only says kind words expecting nothing in return.

I’m looking for a man for the following reasons:
1.To kill bug that scare me
2.To tell me I am pretty
3.So, I can get a dog
4.Someone to workout with
5.Someone to call at 3am to talk to.
6.Someone I can wear my funny pajamas with
7.I need someone tall so when the lights go out I don’t have to sit in the dark
8.Someone to change the battery in the fire detector so I don’t have to wait forever and hear that noise.
9.Someone to hang pictures evenly
10.Someone to take the trash out because the animals scare me
11.Someone to scare the animals away in the morning
12.Someone to wake me up so I won’t be late
13.Someone o get rid of the bug that scare me in my garden
14.Someone to help me move
15.Someone to keep me calm when I am scared
16.Someone to listen to me complain.
17.Someone to fix things I don’t know how to.
18.Someone to take care of me when I am sick
19.Someone to give me a hug when I need one
20.I want someone to talk for me when I don’t want to
21.Someone to explore with me
22.Someone I can turn to before the wind blows so I don’t get watery eyes
23.Someone to buy things in stores I don’t want to
24.Someone to protect me when I am scared
25.To always have someone there for me.

Just a side note I'm not interested in guys in prison/jail.

Telling me I am a dumb **** for not liking you won't make me like you.

I can speak a few languages but I would like you to speak clear English I can understand I don't want to have to look stuff up in the urban dictionary. Sometimes my hair sticks up like I just woke up. I'm not into trying to be sexy I'm more into trying to stay awake. I'm kind of funny/offensive with a heart of gold

I was looking at my profile and read my RELATIONSHIP NEEDS ASSESSMENT and I am actually looking for what it says.

So, I am going to be blunt with what I want

Bottom line: you need someone who reciprocates a strong feeling of attachment to a partner but who also respects and copes well with the fact that you benefit from a reasonable level of physical and psychological space at times.

Bottom line: you need someone who will understand and accept a slow pace for emotional intimacy with you and provide frequent reassurance of their feelings and intentions as the relationship is taken to progressive levels.

Bottom line: you need someone who is extremely supportive of your goals by showing patience and a positive outlook and who also frequently acknowledges and praises your small and large accomplishments.

Bottom line: you need someone who wants a relationship, rather than needs one to feel personally fulfilled.

Bottom line: you need someone who will not put up emotional barriers when you seek to understand his/her thoughts and feelings, but rather will communicate with you intimately and candidly.

Bottom line: you need someone who is calm, cool and collected and who is willing to address issues spontaneously and through intense, action-oriented debates and discussions.

Bottom line: you need someone who sees sex as romantic and fun and especially who will like to be submissive to your sexual desires.

Bottom line: You need someone whose highest priority is your relationship and is willing to do the hard work to keep a transcendent level of love alive in the relationship.

Bottom line: You need someone who can express affection through tangible surprises – such as fun gifts s/he makes, souvenirs purchased on business trips or beautiful tokens or presents that show s/he remember

First Date
Meet and talk if we click go on a nice walk in the park talking and maybe a ice cream cone.

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