hard2know: proud to have served ...
Non-smoker with Average body type
Los angeles, California
36 year old Woman, 5' 3" (160cm), Catholic
Black Cancer with Brown hair
hard2know Wants to date but nothing serious
Bachelors degree
independent gov. contracting

I am Seeking a Man For Friends
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? I do not drink Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Cat & Dog Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Me
I am looking for a kind, good spirited, honest man who has time for me and to get to know me. I am not looking to rush into anything but if your confused about what you want, please do me the favor of not adding me to your confusion.

Top on the list, I don't really wear make-up unless it was required...lol, so no i am not wearing any in most of my pictures, what you see is what you get no make-up sorcery ...lol, oh and yes that is my real hair, shame I even have to say that.

I love to travel and explore new things. I have been to Thailand, Italy, England, Spain, Kuwait x 10, Qatar, Jamaica, Greece (mainland, Crete, Mykonos, Santorini), Iraq, Australia, Canada (victoria island), Japan (okinawa) x 2, over the past couple of years. Oh and of course mexico...lol. I have had a few over nights in some countries but those don't really count. I would love to see more of the world and try to take at least one good trip a year. This seems to have developed into my passion. I love being outside and seeing what the world has to offer. Throughout my life/ travels i have come to truly believe what my parents always taught me, relationships and friendships should not be based on race, but what you have in common, trust, support and ect. Heck, some of the best things in life explore your differences!!!

Not sure how seriously I take this site. I have never had success and have come on here sporadically over the past couple years if that tells you anything, but i digress...

before you get any further, I had surgery, gained some weight because of meds and am working my way back down, don't want to be accused of false advertising, okay continue...

Arg single again, I tried to work it out once again with my ex and his heart just wasn't in it and now it is over for good!!! If you are looking for a quick romp, I am not the correct person for that. If that is what you are looking for please don't message me. The only boy in my bed any time soon will be my cat, chuck. If you are married please leave me alone. If you are looking to play games, I would appreciate it if you would play them with someone else. People ask me what star do you find hot, well patrick swayze but only as the dude in dirty dancing and of course bruce leroy but more about that later.

I took up scuba diving last year and have been trying to get better at it. I unfortunately had my first under water vomit session 23 ft down and survived and that is a skill all on its own. I recently learn how to snowboard, having spent a few days in breckenridge colorado, I did get good enough to get on the ski lift and make it down the green slightly blue hill. I did nordic skiing also, biathlon test, I did green trails, so much respect for those sweds now. That was a mess but I loved it. Maybe more than the snowboarding but they are totally different. I intend to learn how to shoot bow and arrow, so if you know how, hit me up.

I work primarily outside of the united states, and have done so for the past couple of years. I have just moved back to the US to figure out what my next move should be. I would like to open my own business soon. I guess this has brought me full circle, that can be explained if you really want to know. I am working on starting my own tea company. I do a lot of work with the VA these days which recently has allowed me to see more of the usa then ever before. I don't work when I am here so don't ask how that works, its called saving with the intent...lol. I love my parents so I live with them by choice not because I have too, I have spent so much time away, now I seem to want to be here with them more than I want to be anywhere else.

I am not really into talking about myself, but am willing to answer any question asked of me, if asked due to true interest in the response. I will offer that I am spunky and many of my friends describe me as random, because I do things spur of the moment. I realize that often times things need to be thought out and planned, but why not take advantage of the times that don't. I am interested in meeting people who don't take themselves to seriously. Yes, I do believe BRUCE LEROY is the real last dragon... sho nuff!!! I am a homebody when I am not traveling and I am trying to break myself from that behavior.

I love all kinds of music as long as it inspires me, oh and has a good beat (kings of leon, florence and the machine. I have been salsa dancing for a while now and would like to continue that into the future, but haven't gone in a while. So that is a little glimpse into my world, now tell me about yours!

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