How do you just say that you're a nice, easy-going woman looking to share her life with her future soul mate? I guess that would do it. I'm the proud mom of a 10-year-old boy and a 7-year-old girl, and my ex and I have been separated for over 3 yeas now. I'm long past the breakup and excited to meet some good people on here. Friendship is not at all out of the question. It's welcomed.
I like to go to karaoke whenever I get the chance. But most days I just relax on the couch with some popcorn and a good movie or cuddle up with a good book. I enjoy the occasional camping/fishing excursion (nothing like a little time alone to recharge your batteries). Things are different now, but I look forward to taking some chances and seeing who's out there.
What I've Learned from Past Relationships:
Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards.
About the One I'm Looking For:
I'd rather be with a guy who has big dreams and no money than a guy with no dreams and big money. I must admit, I like a bit of a bad boy -- not an awful, I'm-going-to-treat-you-like-crap kind of guy, but someone who's going to push me to my limits and then pull back with a warm hug at the last minute. Truth is, I'm just a nice girl (most of the time) who's looking for some fun and companionship (not necessarily in that order). I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. I also love creativity and passion. Maybe it's your love of '80s movies, your baseball card collection or the fact that you moved across country with only a duffel bag -- it doesn't matter. The right man not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. But I will say that if you've got blue eyes, or are a part-time singer/guitarist, I'm already melting.
Please don't add me as a favorite if you're never gonna msg me. If you are only looking for someone to satisfy your sexual needs then keep looking. Sexual chemistry is important, however I'm looking for something that goes much deeper than sex. Call me old fashioned but I prefer to take my time, go out a few times, get to know one another face to face and see where it leads. I'm not the kind of girl that chats a few times, meet once and then head for the bedroom.
If you are still interested and would like to know more about me, don't be shy and send me a message.
My Idea of a Perfect First Date:
It doesn't involve a chain restaurant, a roller coaster or a movie. It may involve eating, excitement or entertainment. It definitely involves me, you and a long, drawn-out moment where we don't want to say good night.