I am only open to meeting a man who:
*Has no kids*
*Lives in the East Bay* (Preferrably in Contra Costa county)
As for me:
California grown, Bay Area native, I am an independent single woman with no kids who just bought my first home.
What sets me apart from most are my life experiences, which have made me a stronger, wiser, and more open minded person. I am proud of who I have become and now I would like someone special to enjoy life with!
Since it's typical to brag about our best traits, which are typically a highly biased personal opinion of oneself...I want to have a little fun and change it up a bit.
I am clumsy (especially in flat shoes since I wear heels a lot). I am petite, standing at 5'1". I look younger than I am...or at least this is what I am told. I have expensive taste but am frugal (not cheap). I grew up with a Schizophrenic mother and spent a portion of my childhood homeless. I do not have perfect teeth. I have never been to Vegas....infact I have never been anywhere interesting, or gone on a real vacation. I hate doing dishes manually. I don't make my bed in the mornings. I look mad if I am not smiling (it's called "B*** Face" lol). I have road rage from time to time. I have to use spell check a lot! I'm feisty and known to speak my mind. I have a crude sense of humor and tend to say what other people are too afraid to say. I don't like sweets much & prefer salty, spicy goodies (beef jerky & Chips+Salsa YUM!). I talk to my cat like she is a person. I think out loud very frequently. I am analytical, and must know the "how and why" behind everything. I turn into a monster if not fed timely. I sweat more than most women. I like reptiles and other creepy creatures. I am NOT the typical girl next door.
With that being said, I am more than just a pretty face; I am and am an intellectual, though slightly quarky, but classy when necessary. I'm not the "princess" type, more of a hands on to it your self type of girl. I believe respect is earned, and it goes both ways. Ultimately I would like to find someone who agrees there is chemistry between us, then take things slowly and build a strong friendship & relationship. I do want children, I do want to travel and I do want to go on vacations...I just have not found the right person to do these things with.
Integrity, humility, smarts, ambition, adventurous, cultured, outdoorsy, healthy, fit, emotionally mature, classy, family oriented, limitless sense of humor, chivalry (not just on the first few dates), swagger (not to be confused with hood), similar interest in music (RnB, Soul, Hip-Hop, Reggae, Jazz, classic rock, popular radio shit, etc.). I don't expect to meet someone with all of these traits, but a few is a good start :)
over-weight, heavy-set and beer-guts are my #1 physical turn off (not because I am shallow, but because I feel health is crucial). Douchebags & wanksters are my #2 top turn off followed by...people who are Egotistical, disrespectful, dishonest, unreliable/flaky, close minded. hairy man-parts lol, club junkie/party animal, gold teeth & grills, Photos squatting in front of your car, photos of valuable posessions, flipping off the camera or throwing up signs (peace does not count cuz peace is cool). Photos of dollar bills and bling. Photos that do not clearly show your face and eyes. Excessive photos of your muscles and body, Profiles that say Body Type: "athletic" when your clearly not fit...BTW just because you participate in athletic activities, does not mean your body type is athletic. I get a lot of hate mail about this...so to clear things up, I am not interested if you are over weight and do not aspire to lose wieght and get fit.