Lets face it, online dating means you have to judge someone by their photos and the little info they choose to include in their profile. It's very difficult to give people the benefit of the doubt when a huge portion of on-line daters are fake, two faced, and make themselves appear to be the ideal person they wish they were. So with that being said, there are some people who I will not respond to simply based on the seemingly obvious:
-Intention: "Not seeking a relationship or commitment of any kind"
-your screen name implies that your an egotistical ass or only interested in sex (lifesaver, hero, King, hot&sexy, darkchocolate, bigone4u, etc.)
-Mostly photos of yourself without a shirt, flexing, and typical douchebagness.
-You don't smile in any of your photos ~ your either unhappy or are too cool to smile.
-Photos of your possessions (house, cars, money, bling)...Clearly you have nothing else to offer.
-it's obvious that you didn't read my profile based on your profile & the fact that you sent me a message anyway.
Here are some very simple, straight forward facts about me:
What I'm looking for:
Someone local (contra costa county or near Antioch). South Bay, SF & Sacramento areas are too far for me to consider, please respect that.
Someone fit & lives a healthy lifestyle
Someone open to a relationship
Someone who enjoys the outdoors
Respectful to people in general
Good morals & values
Someone in their 30s to mid 40s (yes she does matter)
Bad boy appearance
Good boy heart
Stable (mentally, emotionally, financially)
Awakened (if you actually know what that means, I might be impressed)
Heavy set/over weight physique
Looking for a hook up
Sugar daddy mentality
Bay Area native
Liberal (like "Eff the system" liberal)
Not your girl next door
Not high maintenance
Loves the outdoors
Interested in metaphysics
Something simple that gives us a chance to talk and get to know each other & see if there is any mutual chemistry. I have to admit I am not the "dinner/lunch date" or "movie date" type. Getting drinks is always a good choice in my opinion, but I'm open :)
Please know that the chemistry must be mutual...I may feel chemistry with you, but you may not feel chemistry with me & vise versa. I respect that and would appreciate it if you do also.