I am ONLY interested in meeting those who:
1. Live in Contra Costa County. This doesn't mean those only who work or know people in my area...I don't work in my area so that still doesn't work. Also, if there is a bridge between us...it's too far. Please take my word for it I have good reason for being picky about distance.
2. Are in my age range (29-40) I don't date boys, so please be mature & have your ish together. I trust that a man 40+ will know his boundaries and will respect this line I have drawn.
3. Are Fit & healthy...Sorry but I value good health and a fit physic. Additionally I am not attracted to an overweight body type, or a "gut". This doesn't mean you need to be a gym rat...but please be in shape.
4. Have no children. I respect single dads but it is my personal choice to date someone without kids because I would like to have kids one day, and want it to be a shared first time experience.
5. Know your damn league...Thugs, wanksters, hippies, douche bags, and dweebs need not apply. The shy quiet type are generally too low key for me. The hyphy, center of attention, or arrogant type are too over the top. I can't stand people who need attention & reassurance in order to feel accepted.
6. Are open to the possibility of a relationship if the chemistry is right. This doesn't mean I want to jump into a serious relationship with the next guy I meet. I just want to make sure we are on the same page about why we are dating.
An example of men I am not going to respond to: Those with No Photos. Those with photos of cash, bling, your body parts but not your face. close ups of your tattoos and muscles, and a bunch of photos that you are not in (scenery, quotes etc.). Also a bunch of photos of yourself with attractive women. If you feel that you need to use those images to prove yourself or impress a woman, it leads me to believe that you don't have any good qualities to show for otherwise. Don't get me wrong I love tattoos, muscles and scenic photos, but I'm sure you have more going for you.
Now here is a little about me:
Let's start with who I am not:
I am not a princess, high maintenance, or your average girl next door. I don't always abide by societies expectations. I don't have any siblings. I don't have perfect teeth. I don't tolerate being lied to or BSed, and I don't sugar coat the truth. I don't sit around waiting for what I want...I seek it out and go get it.
I am: California grown, and a bay area native. I have a good job, own a home, and have no kids...I do have a recently adopted 1yr old English Bulldog and a 13 yr old cat ( you must like pets, as they are part of the package) I'm independent, driven and out spoken. I stand up for what I believe in, and can be a bit feisty, but I'm humble enough to accept when I am wrong. I'm silly, witty, and a bit quirky. While I do have a strong personality, I avoid giving people a reason to dislike me. I would like to think I'm the type of person who gets along with everyone. I am a do-it-yourself kind of girl, hands on & outdoorsy. I only pretend to be sexy because Im actually an undercover nerd & love to learn @ be a totally careless dork. I watch National Geographic, Nat-Geowild, HGTV, DIY, etc. I have a dirty mind & a crude sense of humor. Don't get me wrong though, I have no problem being classy and proper when need be.
Something simple that gives us a chance to talk and get to know each other & see if there is any mutual chemistry. Please know that the chemistry must be mutual...I may feel chemistry with you, but you may not feel chemistry with me & vise versa. I respect that and would appreciate it if you do also. Getting drinks is always a good choice in my opinion, but I'm open to just about anything. :) I have to admit I am not the "dinner date" or "movie date" type.
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Age between 29 and 38.
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