Let me start by saying I am looking to meet someone who lives near Antioch, or at least in Contra Costa County. Iv found that distance is a big problem in dating for many reason so I'm not likely to respond if you live outside of coco county.
I want to meet someone who keeps fit, is health concious and enjoys the outdoors. I'm not interested in the sugar daddy mentality because that tells me you need money to woo a woman rather than values & morals. I am human and must be attracted someone to feel romantic about them…so good looks are important…but keep it humble gentlemen, an arrogant attitude is a huge turn off, no matter how good looking you are. I can't stand a man who spends more time in the mirror than me and this he is gods gift to womankind. While it’s not a deal breaker in itself, I do prefer to meet someone who does not have kids since I also don’t have kids.
I don't have a problem dating outside my race or ethnicity. I like a little of the bad boy look, but with a good boy heart. Charm & class go a long way. I'm not attracted to preppy, dorky, overweight, foreign or religious men.
Now here is a little about me:
Let's start with who I am not: I am not high maintenance, or much of the designer wearing type. I like nice things and quality but I work hard for those luxuries & don't tend to flaunt designer wear, fake nails, fake hair etc. I'm not your average girl next door, I don't have any siblings, I don't have perfect teeth, & I don't sugar coat the truth.
I am: California grown, and a Bay Area native from the North Bay & SF. I have a good job, own a home, am completely independent, and always striving to improve, or better myself. I have a 1yr old Bulldog and a 13 yr old black cat. I'm silly, witty, and a bit quirky. While I do have a strong personality, I avoid giving people a reason to dislike me. I only pretend to be sexy because I’m actually an undercover nerd & consider myself to be an intellectual & an old soul. I listen to hip-hop, r&b, soul and some rock/pop. Iv recently found that I really like Dubstep. I have a dirty mind & a crude sense of humor. Don't get me wrong though, I have no problem being classy and proper when need be.
A few examples of people I am not likely to respond to: Those with No Photos. Those with photos of cash, bling, material things (like your car, house, swimming pool etc.), close ups of body parts, tattoos & muscles, but no clear photos of your face. Those with a bunch of photos that you are not in (scenery, artwork, quotes etc.). If you feel that you need to use these images to prove yourself or impress women, it leads me to believe that you don't have any good qualities to show for otherwise. Don't get me wrong I love tattoos, muscles, scenic photos, quotes & nice things, but I have my own…I’m not here to date your muscles, money or your car…I want a man who can impress me with his character…ok and good looks
Something simple that gives us a chance to talk and get to know each other & see if there is any mutual chemistry. Please know that the chemistry must be mutual...I may feel chemistry with you, but you may not feel chemistry with me & vise versa. I respect that and would appreciate it if you do also. Getting drinks is always a good choice in my opinion, but I'm open to just about anything. :) I have to admit I am not the "dinner date" or "movie date" type.