Let me start by saying I am looking to meet someone who lives near Antioch, or at least in Contra Costa County. Please don't message me trying to convince me otherwise, I will not respond.
I want to meet someone who keeps fit, is health concious and enjoys the outdoors. Someone who has their ish together, has goals, and is family oriented. I am human and must be attracted someone to feel romantic about them…so good looks are important…but keep it humble gentlemen, an arrogant attitude is a huge turn off, no matter how good looking you are. Smarts are also sexy! While it’s not a deal breaker in itself, I do prefer to meet someone who does not have kids since I also don’t have kids. I would love a man who can do anything I can do and then some...I'm a tough girl, rough around the edges, and the hands-on do it yourself type. If you don't like to get your hands dirty, prefer to hire someone for everything, and think camping means staying in an RV or a trailer, we might not be a match.
I don't have a problem dating outside my race or ethnicity. I like a man who is not afraid to work with his hands, but also knows a thing or two about more than just his own profession. I like a little of the bad boy look, but with a good boy heart.
Now here is a little about me:
Let's start with who I am not: I am not high maintenance, or much of the designer wearing type. I'm not your average girl next door and I don't consider my self to be average in general (you will find out why when you take the time to get to know me). I don't have any siblings. I don't have perfect teeth. And I don't sugar coat the truth.
I am: California grown, and a Bay Area native. I have a good job, own a home, and am completely independent, and always striving to improve, or better myself. I have a 1yr old Bulldog and a 13 yr old black cat. I'm silly, witty, and a bit quirky. While I do have a strong personality, I avoid giving people a reason to dislike me. I only pretend to be sexy because I’m actually an undercover nerd & love to learn & be a totally careless dork. On the flip side I listen to hip-hop, r&b, soul and some rock/pop. Iv recently found that I really like Dubstep and Trap also. I have a dirty mind & a crude sense of humor. Don't get me wrong though, I have no problem being classy and proper when need be.
A few examples of people I am not likely to respond to: Those with No Photos. Those with photos of cash, bling, material things (like your car, house, swimming pool etc.), close ups of body parts, tattoos & muscles, but no clear photos of your face. Those with a bunch of photos that you are not in (scenery, artwork, quotes etc.). If you feel that you need to use these images to prove yourself or impress women, it leads me to believe that you don't have any good qualities to show for otherwise. Don't get me wrong I love tattoos, muscles, scenic photos, quotes & nice things, but I have my own…I’m not here to date your muscles, money or your car…I want a man who can impress me with his character…ok and good looks
Something simple that gives us a chance to talk and get to know each other & see if there is any mutual chemistry. Please know that the chemistry must be mutual...I may feel chemistry with you, but you may not feel chemistry with me & vise versa. I respect that and would appreciate it if you do also. Getting drinks is always a good choice in my opinion, but I'm open to just about anything. :) I have to admit I am not the "dinner date" or "movie date" type.