Hi, thanks for stopping by, I'm Tony, father to a beautiful girl, employed full time plus other ventures...and not a lot of free time, and looking for someone to enjoy that time with. I have an easy going personality, get along with almost anyone, and a genuine love for life. I am a big believer in communication, and think it is needed in all relationships, business, friendship, and especially in love relationships. I like all kinds of music,mostly rock/alternative (311,Red Hot Chili Peppers,System of a Down) but also like rap,reggae,classic rock,and even a little country. I have a sense of humor and can laugh at almost any situation...even at myself. I am easy going, easy to talk to, balanced, and friendly. I would love to tell you more, but then what would we talk about on our first date?
I am looking for a relationship, not just sex. I am tired of dating and ready for my "last first date" I am looking for a woman that knows who she is and what she wants, and is not afraid to be herself... FROM DAY 1, as i will be too. I tend to put myself fully out there, so we can make a decision on if we will make connections or go seperate ways, without using up too much time, time is valuable these days....I do not have a "type" my type is great personality. If I checked you out I am probably interested...If I messaged you I am definitely interested..dont be shy just say hi, I am easy to talk to, but get tired of sending out long heartfelt messages to women that may not even be on this site anymore... so if my first message is kind of short, it is not because I lack communication skills, but back too the importance of time.. i dont spend a lot of time here so i have to make it count.
still with me???
I am single (never married) and have a friendship relationship with my daughters mother. We have been apart for over 3 years and there are no "leftover feelings" or "drama", we have both moved on and get along for the benefit of our daughter.I put this down because reading some of your profiles this seems to be a major problem (baby mamma drama) none here....next....
I usually work evenings, and weekends too, so that is why i am on here, i have a hard time meeting people with my schedule, but after i meet you, it is much easier to make time, and plans, i just keep myself a little less busy and find time to be together.
Please dont be offended if after a few messages I ask you to IM or for your phone #, or to meet for coffe or drinks. I am here to meet people, and I can talk to you for a year through emails and not know as much about you as I can in 5 minutes on the phone, or on a date.Call me old fashioned, but i like to meet and talk, not email.
If you made it this far, I wish the best of luck to you all, and hope to hear from some of you soon,
first date......I think probably a place where we could get lunch/coffee so we can have a chance to talk, if the conversation goes well (and long) turn it into dinner too. Bowling, hiking, the park, the gym, Im open