If you would like to contact me, please do not use the "wants to meet you". For some reason, I no longer have that option. That feature seems to have been taken away, so I cannot put in a name because the "user name search option" is no longer available. So please just write to me directly, Thanks!
It's all about developing a friendship, respect for each other, commitment and hopefully eventually love. I'm not looking for someone who defines himself by his finances or the "things" that he has. Love isn't attached to financial statements. I'm candid, honest and real. And I'm happy and fun to be with. I enjoy movies, music, dining out.. But just being home is fine too. I don't always have to be "doing something" I suppose we all have some baggage, but mine is in a very small duffel bag. My ideal mate would be a partner, a lover and most of all, a good friend. You don't have to look athletic and slim, just be healthy. Let's accept each other as we are and not try to change the other. Seeking a loving quality friendship, that could maybe evolve into a relationship, no casual encounters, but something more lasting. He needs to be smart with good common sense. Has his own friends and won't make me the center of his life, but will love that I make his life better. I enjoy being with friends and family, but I also enjoy some time on my own. We all know some of us take good pictures, some don't. So let's look beyond the photos and see what we're really all about. We all deserve another chance at love and happiness, so let's give it a try!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
You will meet the real me. I'm down-to-earth, fun and easy to talk to. We'll get over that initial awkwardness. Maybe a drink, lunch, dinner, just something casual to break the ice.. We'll figure out what's best. Keep it simple and fun! What are we waiting for?