For starters I work full time overnight, so I'm up at weird hours. I work alot and still try to have a life and I lose alot of sleep because of it, oh well. I also live on my own, completely by myself actually. I always try to keep the mood light. I'm always cracking jokes and trying to make others smile. Its not really what I say, its how I say it. I went to school for criminal justice and I'm going to become a cop, until then I'm enjoying life while I still can.
I'm into video games, not as hardcore as I used to though. I play to have fun with my friends, I just don't feel like its worth it to try that hard anymore. I do get competitive for tournaments though, ones where there are actual prizes for winning (like a 6 day/7 night trip to Hawaii, I didn't win though). I have been getting into trading card games over the past year now (NERD ALERT!!!lol), which is a form of gaming. Not the expensive ones though where one card can cost hundreds of dollars (**** THAT!), the game I play is good with keeping values low while still having a very competitive metagame. Honestly I find it more fun to play a game in person then online, even when I play card games we all have DSes. I know this might turn alot of women away, but its part of who I am and its a huge part of my life right now. I have made many friends because of this, especially when I lived in florida. And its a very good feeling helping the younger players with the game, not just with playing the game better but being better people in general, it sounds weird but I do do that for them. We travel around the northeast several times a year to compete in these tournaments and we have a blast doing it.
My friends consider me a legend, although I'm not sure why yet, hell I'm not even sure they know why. Most of my friends I've known for over 10 years, a few almost 20. I'm an easy going guy, I like to have a good time. I never lose my cool, ever. If I think long enough, I will always find a solution to whatever problem I have. I'm constantly thinking, I even have a hard time sleeping sometimes because of it. I like to think, I figure out so much about people by just analyzing my encounters with them. Although because of that I come off as shy, but I'm really just deciding if I want to associate myself with these people. I have a unique sense of humor and personality that most people just don't get. I'm not saying I have a sick personality but I find humor in some weird places, sometimes I'm the only one laughing. Its kinda hard to explain it. All in all life is pretty good, I'm just missing that special someone.
As for what kind of woman I'm looking for, the most important thing is being able to hold a conversation. That may not seem like much but thats a big deal to me. I don't really have a specific type as far as looks go, almost any woman can be attractive to me. If you are into some of the things I'm into thats a huge plus, but I know thats too much to ask for, or even just being interested in seeing what its all about is a plus. One more thing, if I smell bullsh*t then I will instantly lose interest, I don't have time for that.
Also just a heads up, if I send you a message I'm gonna keep it brief, just to get a conversation started. I'm not gonna put too much effort into a first message if 95% of the time I don't get a response, just being honest.
I can't believe this is nessesary but I will NOT message anyone who lives too far away. I'm not looking for pen pals nor a long distance relationship. This has happened to me enough times that I have to say this, but it also has me thinking I'm living in the wrong area. Pretty much I don't want to have to pay tolls each time I want to visit you and I don't want anyone to do that for me.
It all depends on what I know about the woman I'm taking out. Based on what I know I would plan out an evening (I told you I like to think). It could be anything; a diner, the park, coffee, or something else I might think of.