I am a kind, compassionate and loyal man with an appreciation for the simple pleasures in life..I always look forward never back. I like to meet up sooner rather than later. I think if one is going to do this It helps to be open minded and meet up with women I find interesting .Its worth putting some effort in and meeting some interesting ladies but happy to chat some first of course . I just became more financially secure and want to start enjoying life more. I am open minded and dont mind trying new things/challenges. I like classic rock/easy listening .browsing second hand stores for neat old stuff. I am looking for a woman 35-45 yrs old, with a positive outlook and a desire for a better life.my main focus when I am with a woman is to make her feel safe and feel good about herself ! p.s yes I am funny love to laugh and will make you laugh! I am self employed, own my own home and believe in positive thinking.I have two boys 14 and 16 who don't live with me and spend two three days a month with them on the Island.Their mom and I are on good terms and haven't been together for over ten years.ask me anything! Cheer's.