First let me add, the #1 turn off for me is someone who can't hold a conversation. If the conversation is like pulling teeth - forget it, we are not meant to be. You're not desperate, neither am I. Just being direct and honest, as not to waste each others time. Communication!
There are a lot of cleavage shots going around this venue. From my perspective, there is more to person than a nice cleavage and a great smile. That’s right, I fancy someone with "brains", with a big splash of humor, and great personality that can laugh with you / laughter is good for the heart. : ) Hypothetically speaking; I'm going to marry you, not your boobs! Chemistry, brains, conversation!
A picture is worth a thousand words, my pictures reflect me, enjoying life.
My profile states 44 years of age, that is incorrect. I am a 43 year old professional with a great personality that outweighs my looks, can't have it all in life. :0) I enjoy being a father of two (Teen and pre-teen) I love my two boys (same mom) with all my heart, and yes, I raise them accordingly with their mother (Mom re-married many, many years ago - no drama there), family's is everything in this world to me and I hope your family is to you. I'm not Mr. Six pack, nor, am I looking for Ms. Six pack either. However, I still work out and maintain a very healthy lifestyle. I am fit, adore life, absolutely love to travel, admire the great outdoors, positive thinker, love adventure, go to sleep happy - wake up with a big smile and would like to find someone who shares similar interest. I’m very, very easy going, awesome sense of humor, honest, faithful and monogamous - with no Ego.
Born and raised in Los Angeles / San Gabriel Valley County; I also have a little Valley boy in me as I graduated high school in the San Fernando Valley, and attended college in woodland hills for a couple of years. Oh yea, can you believe I have no criminal record and great credit! Smile!
Your pictures: Please, No blurry pictures (What's going on with that?), Far away pictures, hair in your face pictures, all Mardi gras mask picture, very dark picture, sunglasses bigger than your face pics, sugar coated pictures(glamour shot / mall photo shop pictures), or pictures that don't really show your face or true colors. You are who you are, don't be ashamed of the "real you" (there is a lot of that going around here) if you do, then you might lack confidence or self-esteem. I understand, not all of us are photogenic, I am not that's for sure - I state it not as put down, just me letting you know the way things are. =) (Sorry, I’m very honest and upfront) Have a little confidence and show off the beautiful face mom gave you! =) No matter what we all look like It's the inner self that we end up falling in love with - with a touch of looks. =) Just be your-self.
I am a very genuine, creative as well and well rounded. I "Love All Music", I play the guitar, outgoing, funny, sociable, love comedy clubs, exploring new sceneries, enjoy the beach whether it’s bike riding, running or just hanging out on the sand reading a good book. Far from stubborn, if I am wrong I will not hesitate to say I'm sorry. I love spontaneous road trips, big or small; it doesn't matter, what matters is finding that someone to enjoy it with. I raise money for charity; volunteer my time to help out the less fortunate. If you're of "average" body type, I would prefer average/athletic, please have some form of discipline in your life – eating habits, some system of working out, you don’t have to have a six pack, but a balance healthy lifestyle works great for me.
Chemistry is the key:
GOOD COMMUNICATION is ESSENTIAL, positive, young at Heart, Spontaneous is a plus : ), motivated, driven and is genuinely a happy person, big heart, loves to travel, and doesn't walk around like she's running out batteries.
Note: I am very open minded, so I will respect our difference's as nothing in life is picture perfect. 8) We all have a past and that's what it is "The past". I don't have room in my life for yesterday's negativity. I have an outgoing personality hopefully you will too! Let’s go explore the world! Honest, monogamous and Loyal. Please at least know the difference between your and you're! Grammar ~
Sorry, no pic no reply - not here for a one night stand either - sorry. I have kids and lead by example. Respect women. If you can't say hi, just put a happy face in the message column and press send. Take a chance, even if you're the type of woman that doesn't initiate first contact. You never know.