I have come home to the Eugene area after being away for a few years. After college, I had to get work experience since there are so many college grads in town, it's hard to start a career without experience. So now, I am coming home with 8 years of experience, looking to settle down and move on to the next stage of grown-upness.
I have been working in social services for almost a decade, and love to help people. I am independent, financially stable, capable of taking care of myself and even bought a house on my own, but a part is missing from my life; I want a family. I want an equal partner to love and support, and possibly children someday. Whether having our own (some assembly required), fostering, adopting or if you already have some, I would like to be a mother. I can give clients at work unconditional positive regard, but clients come and go. I want to be able to come home to the same collection of little weirdos and shower my family with love and affection.
I am a hard-working girl that would like more things to do outside of work. I have some cats, and a few fish. I like scary or cheesy movies, but please don't make me sit through some romantic comedy, bleh. I roast my own coffee, so it's wonderfully fresh. I can be a silly girl, a little on the nerdy side. All but one of my cats have been named after characters from Tenchi Muyo, extra credit if you're at all familiar.
I don't really care strongly about sports, spending every free minute outside with hiking or ATVs or that kind of stuff. I have nothing against getting dirt under my nails, but I just don't have that much fun outdoors for long either in the cold or getting sunburnt. If all your interests involve hunting, camping, riding ATVs, or sports, I am probably not really going to get into those to a significant degree.
What I would like is a man with some self-confidence, pride in where he is in life, and ambition to succeed and do more with his future. Some style and class would be nice, but character is most important. And I would like to go out for karaoke sometimes.
I don't want to waste time with games. I am generally honest to a fault. I feel the point of dating is to meet someone and see if a good match can come out of it. I prefer honesty, so that we can both actually get what we are looking for, without being mislead.
There are plenty of great ways to meet for a first date. An invitation to go somewhere or do something at a hole-in-the-wall place where all the locals have fun would be nice. Just please, please, please, don't just send a picture of your penis right off. Male genitalia is certainly fun and all, but I don't need an image of your penis to start a relationship. I've seen enough, and am looking for a guy with brains in addition to what all guys are born with. Conversations before sexting, pretty please! I do have fun with flirting, but I am not looking for a relationship based only on sex.
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