If you are imagining an Asian man dashing here and flying there in his green tunic and tights...stop there! This certainly will turn out to be a disastrous eye sore.
While I do not take resemblance to Mr. Pan, nor do I wish to, we do share quite a bit in personality traits. Adventurous, mischievous, youthful, and certainly fun, just to name a few. AND I dwell in this world, as I have minimized my time in Never Land. I enjoy what I do in my career, but my work requires degree of seriousness and professionalism that exceeds my preference...but!! I am who I am, not what I do.
Wendy should be fun-loving, possess good sense of humor, intelligent, and open-minded. No, she doesn't have to be brunette, as it is all about equal opportunity these days. If Peter Pan can have black hair, Wendy can have green hair, for all I care. Are you out there?
And where and how would this rendez-vous occur? Somewhere casual, perhaps over a coffee or, something more interactive. But certainly not while watching Peter Pan and Hook!
I don't have a routine for first dates. It depends on what events are available, weather, etc. I'm easy. Traditional dinner and coffee is good, salsa lesson at dancing studio is cool too.