Age: 37
IndigoKharma: West Coast Native, East Coast Livin'.
Non-smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Somewhere btwn roc & syr, New York
39 year old Woman, 6' 0" (183cm), Catholic
Caucasian Taurus with Brown hair
IndigoKharma Wants to date but nothing serious
Associates degree
Self Employed

Black/White Photo for my friend's art class.

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? My children are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 4 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Second Language Portuguese  

Sf giants fanVarious types of musicKilts and the awesome men who can wear them
Men w/well-groomed beards-theyll save us from the zombie apocalypseAlex grey artFibonacci spirals
Real men do not wear skinny jeans or hipster glasses w/no lenses-thats called douchebagPismo beach is portuguese mecca but sublime styles come straight from long beach

About Me
Hi, there!
I've tried this before, with mixed results.
Now that I've moved into a new town, I'll give it another chance. Not a fan of speaking about myself or repeating what I said, so, here are some (Frequently Asked Questions)

Yes, I might leave the 1st message & please, don't be shy.
No, I won't be rude when you reply, but I am very honest.
Yes, that's right, I may not be your "type".
But if your "type" was working out for you, you wouldn't be here, looking for someone, now would you?
No, you don't have to be a rude & block me.
If you don't like BBW's, I get it, just politely tell me.
Yes, I will be:
Single, attractive, tall(yes, I really am 6 feet in height), funny, kind, polite, loving, gracious, hard-working, respectful to your kids, your parents, your Ex-wife or Ex-GF;
No, I won't be:
Disrespected, lied to, cheated on, mistreated, or even everyone's cup of tea-would rather be your double shot of whiskey, served neat, anyway!
Yes, I know how to:
Hold a decent conversation, debate reasonably over current affairs, tell if it is an aged Single Malt Scotch or just swill.
I also know how to: Cook, bake, BBQ, maintain a clean home & happy family. Being the only daughter, Dad taught me a few things more like: Drive a 4x4/tractor/sports car, throw a football/baseball/punch, lift weights, smoke a cigar while enjoying a warm, smooth Cognac-if I have to; He also taught me to use firearms safely & accurately.
No, I do not gut/clean or field dress venison-my Dad never let a woman do that!

But it wasn't all Dad's doing Mom taught me: that any woman can be sexy as long as she is fashionable, use verbal judo-not your breasts-to get out of a speeding ticket, speak three different languages-fluently. As you can see, I'm very "family-first".
Yes, I like: to read-find intelligence sexy; but do not like-pompous, rude people talking down to others just to be d!€ks; I REALLY like it when you spell correctly & use proper grammar, that's hot!
Yes, I like to go to the gym & I like all kinds of art/music/people like: First Responders, Lawyers, Teachers, Communication Majors, Ranchers, Farmers, Dairymen, Blue Collar guys who work hard to become better each day, White Collar guys who grew up in Blue Collar homes & "get it".
No, I'm not a "big girl" because I eat all the time or eat bad things.
Yes, please ask me who & what Hashimoto is.
No, I do NOT want to date the following:
Addicts, Narcissists, Sociopaths, Convicts, Inmates-currently incarcerated, Felons on parole, probation, Drug dealers, Gang Bangers, Losers, Sh!theads, Dudes who hit Chicks, Short guys with "Napoleon Syndrome", if you use the "N-word" to describe your friends.

Yes, I do go to church, feel a closeness with my Higher Power & am politically cognizant.

Seriously, if you made it this far, you should leave me a message. Don't be scared.

First Date
It totally depends, obviously meeting in a public place & talking would be a great first step. Then seeing what happens naturally, no rush or pressure! I'm pretty intense at work so I want to enjoy my time away from it, by being laid back & enjoying your company. I would hope you would, too!

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Age between 34 and 45.
Live in United States
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Must not do drugs
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