golfdvl23: Seriously.... :) YES.
Non-smoker with Average body type
Hamilton, New Jersey
45 year old Man, 6' 2" (188cm), Non-Religious
Other ethnicity Leo with Mixed color hair
golfdvl23 Wants a relationship
Some university

7/14 Most Recent

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer not to say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 5 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Jay
Welcome to my Profile

Here's my story


Obviously like many of you on this site life gets to be a little hectic and busy at times so I have turned to trying out a dating site. Oh Boy..

First I would like to say : I do not have any idea if there is Internet Dating Etiquette or a Process to follow but I will try to respond timely and do my best. I do not use or trust the Meet Me Function as it does not seem to work properly, it has alerted members that i was interested yet i did not use it, go figure.

Ok so I just turned 45 this past week, and I am rewriting my profile to try and describe who I am in type rather than in person with words, in hopes to meeting that Special Someone.

What type of Woman am I looking for?

Well if I knew I probably would have met her already, but there are a few qualities I would like to find in a Woman and they are as follows.
Sincere - Meaning not Patronizing but truly sincere in her actions.
Affectionate - Physically as well as Emotionally, being able to show it without reservation or hesitation.
Truthful - More Importantly being True to herself first and then to her Partner, for if someone is not True to themselves they cannot be with someone else.
Caring - This is close to being Affectionate yet the basic meaning is Care, caring enough to give a hug, a kiss on a bad day, believe it or not it makes a difference.
Fun/Light Hearted - Able to smile quickly, being silly, loves to laugh (who doesn't right?).
Adventurous - Lets explore different locations, wether a State or a Country, and Foods, wether a Restaurant or Trying a new Recipe at home.
Those are the Primary qualities that I am looking for, yet i realize that I may not find all of these in anyone so I am open to someone with the first 3 which should be easy enough to find. I hope...
I am open to different Races,Ethnicities and Nationalities.

What type of person am I?

Truthful - I will let you know how I feel and think about something no matter what subject.
Affectionate - Once I am in a relationship I am very affectionate since I like to express myself and how I feel about that person.
Sincere - When I express myself in any gesture, I am Sincere. I do not say or do something without Substance behind it.
Caring - I am very Caring and will show it.
Fun/Light Hearted - At times I am Sarcastic, Silly, and like to enjoy the moment. I usually am always smiling.
Adventurous - I Really enjoy Food!! I can't express that enough, I Enjoy Food, all Types & Ethnicities. I haven't cooked in a while but also enjoy Cooking. I also enjoy going to different Locales to try, you guessed it Food, and see how other people live in other Countries, i usually go into local towns away from the Touristy areas to try the cuisine.

Some other factors that you may or may not like about me or makes no difference to you.

Religion - I am Spiritual but Not Religious, and open to your Religion. I was Hindu and then Catholic, was even Baptized at 18 :O, reason why I no longer am we can discuss if we meet.
Children - I have one, am open to yours, open to possibly more and open to not having any more. I am More focused on a lasting Relationship.
Education - Some College, Some University, and TechnicalTraining Certificates. No Degrees.
Work - Gainfully Employed with the same Corporation for the last 26 Years, started when I was 18, you can do the math. :)
Hobbies - Golf and more Golf :).. Billiards, Real Estate, Exercising, Traveling, Dining, Cooking, Exploring new places, Conversations some deep some not.
Distance - I am ok within 75 Miles or a little more to see if the possibility is there.
Smoking - I am ok with smokers as long as you do not smoke in my house.
There is much more about me that we can talk about .

I would rather meet in person after the first phone conversation to not waste your or my time. Other than the first 1 or 2 e-mail's and a phone conversation I am opposed to constant e-mail's and text as Life is not getting any Longer no matter what age you may be. I want to enjoy Life with someone wonderful who feels the way I do.

Even though what I typed here may be lengthy, it is somewhat basic and just the essentials, and I hope it gives you an idea of the person I am.

Thank you for taking the time to read my Profile.


First Date
Anything can be fun with the right person. First meeting a drink and apps, or coffee/tea, on the outside chance we hit it off we can extend the day to include Dinner.

Mail Settings
To send a message to golfdvl23 you MUST meet the following criteria:
Live in United States