golfdvl23: READ ME..
Non-smoker with Average body type
Hamilton, New Jersey
44 year old Man, 6' 1" (185cm), Non-Religious
Other ethnicity Leo with Mixed color hair
golfdvl23 Wants a relationship
Some university


I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer not to say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 5 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Jay

I have been told that I am a caring, devoted and warm individual. Chivalary is not dead with me. I love conversation with an engaging individual. You will tell from the start that I am a great listener and interject intelligent and thoughtful comments.

An avid golfer and would like to share that experience with a great woman. I will give lessons if needed. :-)

Deep conversations that will go from one subject to the other end of the spectrum.

Been in NJ for over 40 years and mainly in Essex County, now Mercer, it is a wonderful state with alot to offer, but recently (after a COLD winter) interested to see where i would like to eventually retire to.

Music, love it all, i am an 80's baby, Duran Duran, Depeche Mode, C-Bank, etc, but also varies to motown, oldies, soft rock, practically everything except hard/gangster rap.

Like to travel. Whether it is a daytrip to New Hope or a weekend excursion to Maine in the off-season. A Port town that has wonderful seafood and wine is really appealing to me. I also like to travel Internationally. I have been to Southeast Asia, Costa Rica, Dominican Republic and have taken cruises.

Want to share new experiences with someone who is open to possibilities.

Am open to meeting someone who is open to a platonic friendship where we can go out and find new places to eat and have drinks.

I moved to the central area for work and have not been able to see all that it has to offer and would like to find someone who would like to explore the area with me. I do not hang out in bars or night clubs since my twenties, i will however go if there is good food or a venue.

Although we all have adapted or forced to adapt somewhat to Technology, i see it as a convenience not a substitute to communications. If texting and email is your way of communicating the majority of time, WOW, i am definitely not your guy. Speaking in person will always mean more than a text or email to me. It is truly sad that more people are losing sight and value of how to actually get to now/court someone where you can feel chemistry, trust, compassion, and possibly love for that person.

Looking for someone who is looking to enjoy life as it comes and not stress out over trivial matters.

Someone who likes to be silly, enjoys cooking together and trying different recipes.

Someone who wants to experience all the simple things and new adventures that awaits us.

Update: Texting, if you have to text more than twice wouldn't it be easier and more personal to actually speak with someone? I think so and would prefer it to endless cold texting. I have been told i am not what's expected and much better in person so, meeting in person is far better than looking at a picture where most stereotype someone into something they are not. I have been guilty of it as well so i would rather meet sooner than later to actually know someone and feel if there is chemistry..

Like most of you, i do not plan on being on here for long and would rather meet someone through my daily activities, but this is an unexplored opportunity, or so i hope. I am not an upgraded member so i cannot see someone who wants to meet me, please send a message.

Warm Regards


First Date
Anything that promotes conversation & laughs, something that we both can have fun with. Such as Drinks & Apps, Bowling, Billiards, Walking & playing games on the Boardwalk, Museum, Trying a different type of ethnic food, or maybe for some ice cream or italian ice, so many choices, or something else we both agree upon. Anything can be fun with the right person.

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