Though I was ambooooshed by my friends to join this site, I have to admit, I have met so many nice people on here. It has been well worth it....
Every time I try to describe my perfect man, it ends up sounding like i am looking for a faithful poodle. LOL, no, I am not looking for a poodle. Lets just say that I am looking for someone who likes who they are and are willing to share themselves with me. Someone that doesn't mind making a fool of themselves or laughing at themselves. I find myself cracking up over the silliest of things I do sometimes.
I am not sure this site will find me my true love...but hey, maybe i can make some good friends in the process.
I may come off as shy at first but when I become comfortable I'm terribly silly. I love to laugh. Dance in my kitchen (neighbors seem to get a kick out of it), sing out the car window as loud as I can, trying to encourage someone to join in on my foolishness. I love the blues (billy holiday), classic rock, and jazz.
People take life too serious sometimes and are moving so fast that they don't even notice the flowers growing in the cracks of the sidewalk. Don't you think life is too short not to notice the little things? Cherish laughter, smile at your neighbor, stick your tongue out at a kid, feel the wind in your face, or complement a stranger. I am a busy person too, but somehow, for me, I make sure to stop and see what is in front of me. Life is more fulfilling that way.
II tried to ski once and spent most my time on my butt, laughing at myself. So many people out there that do so many things. Where do you find the time? Thi Chi is my ultimate favorite thing to do. It gives me the energy I need to smile at strangers. Well, that and a good strong cup of coffee. I love to create things. If I can’t find what I am looking for I am determined to make it myself (art, clothes, furniture). If I have no clue how to do something I take the time to learn. Never afraid to ask questions or seek advice. I take pride in my ability to trouble shoot. It's ok if it doesn’t work the first time, eventually I will get it right. Eventually things just seem to work out (positive out look I suppose).
Camping is also a love of mine. There is nothing like a good cup of coffee over a camp fire, the stars, the fresh air, lovely smells. Freshly caught fish.
In short, I am comfortable with myself, though there is always room to improve. I am far from perfect. Don't hold onto the negative but look forward with optimism. Life is way too short to waist time and energy on things that cant be changed. I like my life, enjoying what I have accomplished so far and am looking for someone to make it even better. :)
Maybe i should shorten this....
Big smile to all that take a peek
And I wish you the best of luck in your search :)