sillybut: Laugh at yourself, be goofy
Non-Smoker with Average body type
N. california, California
47 year old Female, 5' 11" (180cm), Other
Caucasian Capricorn with Red
sillybut is actively seeking a relationship.
Some college
Class Clown


I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Cat & Dog Eye Color Grey
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 7 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Second Language French  

About Me
I am not sure this site will find me my true love...but hey, maybe i can make some good friends in the process.

I have my moments of being shy and moments of being terribly silly. I love to laugh. Dance in my kitchen (neighbors seem to get a kick out of it), sing out the car window as loud as I can, trying to encourage someone to join in on my foolishness. I love the blues (billy holiday), classic rock, and some newer songs.

Sometimes I think people take life too serious and move too quickly. I'm very aware of the need for another 24 hours in a day. But don't you think life is too short not to notice the little things? Cherish laughter, smile at your neighbor, stick your tongue out at a kid, feel the wind on your face, or complement a stranger. I am a busy person too, but somehow, for me, I make sure to stop and see what is in front of me. Life is more fulfilling that way. I regret missing moments I can't get back.

So many gentlemen out there that do so many extraordinary things. Where do you find the time? Sky diving, water skiing, snow boarding, car racing, pump weights........ I'm tired just writing all those down and wonder if I could even keep up with you.

Camping is also a love of mine. There is nothing like a good cup of coffee over a camp fire, the stars, the fresh air, lovely smells. Freshly caught fish. Exploring new places.

In short, I am comfortable with myself, though there is always room to improve. I am far from perfect. Don't hold onto the negative but look forward with optimism. Life is way too short to waist time and energy on things that cant be changed or seem to always bring you down. I like my life, enjoying what I have accomplished so far and am looking for someone to make it even better. :)

I've been told it a good thing to express what I'm looking here goes. I'm looking for someone who likes who they are and are willing to share themselves with me. There is a huge difference between confidence and arrogance. I'm not a real fan of judgmental people. I admire patience. I am an independent woman, so finding a gallant man (not the easiest to find) changes the tables a bit. Makes me feel as if I don't have to always be the strong one. That maybe I can just let the man in my life be the strong one for me. Does that makes since? Ok, here's some honesty...I am not looking for perfection. I don't care what you do for a living but loving what you do is very important. I will put something out there though. If you haven't noticed already, Im a pretty tall woman, especially in heals. I'm not sure why 5'5" men are attracted to that but it would be nice to find someone my height or taller. Holding hands or slow dancing would be far less awkward. Oh boy, did that sound shallow? I sure hope not.

Did you read the whole thing? I'm impressed

Big smile to all that take a peek
And I wish you the best of luck in your search

P.s. if you don't hear from me, please don't send mean comments or take it personal. :)

First Date
walks are nice, sitting and listening to classic rock or the blues. I probably would not suggest a movie because getting to know you is the whole idea. I would rather hear what you have to say.

Gifts Received

Mail Settings
To send a message to sillybut you MUST meet the following criteria:
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
You must have a picture to contact this user.
Must not do drugs
Must not be married