I know sex in the city exists.... but what about dating in the city, or getting to know someone in the city, or a nice freaking guy in the city?
ok...the sex in the city reference is from when i lived in nyc but i suppose all the wondering about dating is the same for a single girl anywhere. i'm back in south florida now, where i was born and raised and oddly enough i'm so far from the typical fakeness that now populates this area. i say what i mean and mean what i say--- i look for that in people i surround myself with as well.
diclaimer: [if you think my headline is an invitation to inquire about my breasts and couldn't tell that it's a witty (slightly sarcastic) comment meant to catch your eye, or think that because i mention the word 'boobs' that i'd like to hear about any part of your anatomy....i suggest you move on]
I was really focused on school and then building my career and just didn't feel the need for a relationship, but now that i'm older and established i'm starting to crave a little companionship, someone to take me to dinner and a movie, someone to run errands with, or hold my bags while we go shopping... or if thats not your thing I'm sure there is a lifetime movie I can talk you into. Relax...I'm a hot wings, beer, and whatever game is on at the bar kind of girl.(but in all honesty if you want to go shopping, i probably won't say no)
i'm in the hospitality industry so typically holidays and weekends don't usually exist. however, at my level fortunately i do have a little more flexibility, but anyone i date will have to respect that long hours are part of the deal. but that being said, i do desire a personal life and i try to keep a balance.
Since I'm such a busy first dater, I'll speak from my experience...kidding...ok, i'm sure by now you've realized I'm pretty witty, but want to catch me in prime akwardness...insert first date. i get nervous just like everyone else...really, this is not the ideal meeting people situation.
i'd imagine a casual setting would work, something like meeting my parents and being interigated by my best girl friends. BUT, seriously...i'm sure whatever you suggest..ie: coffee, drinks, something of the like would be just fine.
**If it leads to a second date, then we'll know it was a good idea.
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