*** So I usually take a long time to write back to people- sometimes there is just so much going on! Soooo long this thing deletes my mail :( Sorry feel free to try again ***
Secondly, sometimes I try to message someone that is perfect for me/her, and it states that I am not allowed to message them based on their criteria? then I compare and contrast their criteria versus my profile information and its a match. Go F yourself Plenty of BullSH*T. coughm So, the way I look at it is... it is specifically segregating people that are in the 90th percentile match in order to keep more people single, so that we are subjugated to their affiliate marketing and advertising, which is where they make their revenue. Rant rant rant...
If you get to know me you will like me. Well that's only 97% accurate... I get along with all types of people except 3%. I am kinda handsome too if you noticed. I’m smart, funny, kind, affectionate, caring, and loving. You know all the qualities that no one looks for. I’m calm and like to go with the flow. I think before I speak and am a deep person. I’m one of the few nice guys in the world. DO Not hold it against me. Special Note: However I do have a wild side. With its own label. My friends call me Lunch. Ive done and seen more than a few things... from here up and down and side to side across the USA and I even threw in Japan and England for kicks: and who doesn’t have that cliche one night in Mexico??? Needless to say. I have some great stories. What I’m getting at here is i am not boring. Mild yet wild? And yes, I do have an inner Dork in me just so you know. I love food but can’t cook and I love to watch movies, so I’m happy to go out to dinner and a movie whenever I get the chance. However I also try to be romantic and creative with the right person when I can. I've found that I don’t like dating much: you meet the worst people!!! I like animals, children, and crazy people, but I am allergic to them; so I cant keep any. Supervised visits are O.K. though. I am interested in art, and psychology among other things. For a guy I take a ridiculous amount of time getting ready. I'm always late no matter how hard I try not to be. I love driving. I have a Black on black muscle car, The speedometer stops at 120 mph but I have or course gone faster in it. It's broke Tear. (I'm in the lengthy process of restoring it. ) MUST WIN LOTTERY ... So one of my hobbies is taking pictures of speedometers while going over 100 mph. I get to drive many different vehicles cause of work. I also enjoy safer more boring activities such as "Bra and Panty Tickle Fights". My favorite types of music are: Alternative, Rock, and Metal. I also love the water so obviously I love the beach. I like to do a lot of things, but I tend not to do much of anything unless I have someone special to do them with. Will you be that someone?
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
My Ideal match should not be a prude, she needs to be willing to try new things every once in a while. Plus she needs to have a healthy appetite for getting it on. She also has to be intelligent and Have A Sense Of HUMOR . I really would like someone with a good head on their shoulders (Note: it should also be pretty). I want someone who is mature enough to face their problems and deal with them to become a better person, and I will be right there to help, support and give my Love. Red hair is my favorite, but I am an equal opportunity employer. Statistically brunettes are the ones to catch me, but I have been tending to lean Blond lately- Tangent probably. Anyway... She also must be willing and open to communication. Which means being honest to herself and me. I would like a give/take relationship in which we both put in an equal amount. I understand one person has to give more sometimes, but over all it should average out. I'm very understanding. I like to be able just to relax in that special someones arms. And enjoy a laugh or two. I'm not looking for anything serious (I'm not too sure about that statement). A romantic long term relationship with marriage potential is how I understand how I want my future to be. I will not rush into that kind of situation. SO I'm more than fine with a casual relationship for right now as I am working on myself at the moment... It's coming along nicely I might add. I could use some new friends, people to hang out with. friends with benefits which I've never really experienced... Or something like a Charlie Sheen scenario (Please God). No one is exactly perfect and I’m Flexible so well see how it goes.
I AM NOT interested in anyone that can't take care of themselves. And I'm not referring to just financially. I don't mind supporting those I Love, but I do mind being used or manipulated or lied to. Oh and if you don't Love yourself, you can't Love me fully (that was a fun lesson to learn :) In case you didn't know: Love is not the chemical imbalance that occurs in your brain during the first weeks following meeting a person of the opposite sex whom is on their best behavior. I don't see myself in a long term relationship with someone that is: a Cheater, habitual or compulsive liar, major drug abuser or Addict of any kind, is Co Dependent, or is a chain smoker, casual only... If those things bother you, or you have a pattern of those behaviors, it means I am not the right person for you for longer than one or two nights okay maybe three weeks... We will have a great but limited time until I figure out your secrets, but you so are not meeting the parents. hahaha. Just move on to the next profile. Thank you for coming, have a nice day.