My Ideal match should not be a prude, she needs to be willing to try new things every once in a while. Plus she needs to have a healthy appetite for getting it on. She also has to be intelligent and Have A Sense Of HUMOR . I really would like someone with a good head on their shoulders (Note: it should also be pretty). I want someone who is mature enough to face their problems and deal with them to become a better person, and I will be right there to help, support and give my Love. Red hair is my favorite, but I am an equal opportunity employer. Statistically brunettes are the ones to catch me, but I have been tending to lean Blond lately- Tangent probably. Anyway... She also must be willing and open to communication. Which means being honest to herself and me. I would like a give/take relationship in which we both put in an equal amount. I understand one person has to give more sometimes, but over all it should average out. I'm very understanding. I like to be able just to relax in that special someones arms. And enjoy a laugh or two. I'm not looking for anything serious (I'm not too sure about that statement). A romantic long term relationship with marriage potential is how I understand how I want my future to be. I will not rush into that kind of situation. SO I'm more than fine with a casual relationship for right now as I am working on myself at the moment... It's coming along nicely I might add. I could use some new friends, people to hang out with. friends with benefits which I've never really experienced... Or something like a Charlie Shean scenario (Please God). No one is exactly perfect and I’m Flexible so well see how it goes.
I AM NOT interested in anyone that can't take care of themselves. And I'm not referring to just financially. I don't mind supporting those I Love, but I do mind being used or manipulated or lied to. Oh and if you don't Love yourself, you can't Love me fully (that was a fun lesson to learn :) In case you didn't know: Love is not the chemical imbalance that occurs in your brain during the first weeks following meeting a person of the opposite sex whom is on their best behavior. I don't see myself in a long term relationship with someone that is: a Cheater, habitual or compulsive liar, major drug abuser or Addict of any kind, is Co Dependent, or is a chain smoker, casual only... If those things bother you, or you have a pattern of those behaviors, it means I am not the right person for you for longer than one or two nights okay maybe three weeks... We will have a great but limited time until I figure out your secrets, but you so are not meeting the parents. hahaha. Just move on to the next profile. Thank you for coming, have a nice day.