I'd love to find a women who doesn't view all guys like they are only looking for one thing and see's me for who I am without comparing. Be good, be naughty ;) be honest and up front, be insecure and secure, be sexy in your own way, be a friend, be happy and sad, Don't be perfect, but be an equal, independent, but not self centered. I'm searching for that one special woman and not a three week wonder to hopefully build a long term relationship with from friendship. After all, It has to start somewhere. About me? Full time parent to my 11 and 14 yr old, Easy going, Quick witted, Sarcastic at times in a funny sort of way( Can make you laugh to the point of peeing yourself, But please don't! I rarely carry Charmin or a hairdryer in my back pocket) Likes to take time for the sunset or sunrise, Thunderstorms, Going for walks on or off the beaten path. Stop and smell the flowers(Not the one with the bee, You will piss it off) Mechanically inclined type and can figure out how to fix it or build it pretty easily. Usually up for just about anything as far as activities go. Spontaneous, Not a picky eater, But like variety and not the same old thing. And yes I'm domesticated and cook, Clean, Laundry, Have a career, And a drivers license lolllll. It's funny when people ask that. About you? Still believes in romance and all the wonderful giddy little kid feelings that go with it, and takes the time to maintain that feeling in letting the person know what they mean to you. Little things have meaning to you, Not afraid of PDA within limits. Simply put I'm looking for the love of a lifetime not a night time or ounce in awhile time.
I should add that I recently stopped smoking as of a little more than two months ago now and would prefer a non smoker or at least someone who is considering quitting.
Reasons you should not bother: You're extremely judge mental. You're a one sided conversationalist(meaning you put forth no effort in asking questions of your own) it shows lack of interest on your behalf. You have become jaded, You think your looks alone will get you a decent guy( you know very little about guys and will continue with ones you complain about) If your profile is basically empty?( I guess you're relying on your looks) You only date a person based off what you feel you can gain from them.
Personal thought, Why does POF feel like the left overs of broken relationships that got kicked to the curb for some reason? (joys of the internet I imagine) Sound harsh? I think not, It's called being a realist.
Coffee shop, lunch, go for a walk, have a picnic. If two people connect, the place seems to become irrelevant if you become lost in the person.
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