a guy who is healthy, active, self-confident, loving, truthful, monogamous, responsible, open (joys, fears, concerns, love, worries, people), genuine, happy, and fun to be with.
Most importantly, emotionally balanced and complete with himself.
Attractive to me is: a defined jaw line, clean cut, well groomed, not hairy, clean/straight teeth, no tats on neck, or hands, and a nice smile. Anywhere between muscular and lean. Taller then me. English is your 1st language, or extremely well with it.
My type of guy would look like: Chris Pine, Channing Tatum, Paul Walker and Bradley Cooper. (They're all fit, clean cut, with a nice smile) Do you see the pattern?
No smile? Sunglasses? Fat? Unkept? Insecure? Thick ear studs? Smokes nicotine? Broke? I'm NOT interested. Get your sh** together.
Down to earth, straight shooter, Responsible, Loving, Caring, Fun, Friendly, Adventurous, Trustworthy, Athletic, Honest, Aware, Efficient, Creative, Curious, Courteous, Conscientious, Driven, Organized, Clean, Reliable, Accountable, Persistent, Smart, and Poised.
$0 Credit card debt
I owe my car (no more payments)
I was raised in Chatsworth, CA
I've also lived in PA, NC, SC, VA, TX, and Japan.
I love traveling, exploring, and adventure (because I'm curious and like to have fun).
I graduated from the Art Institute of Los Angeles, with a BS in Media and Animation Design.
While a college student, I was a personal trainer, for 5.5 years and I prefer to eat healthy like the Paleo Diet, but will splurge a little when I PMS. :) (no I don't get moody)
I enjoy reading (practical) self improvement, psychology, relationship, millionaire, and health books.
I just got my ebook published! "STOP! Don't Get Married... YET!"
I grew up drawing and playing sports and still enjoy them today.
Since i like things to be organized and I've been impatient at times, I've learned how to be independent and self sufficient and hang my own pictures, do my own car research, mount my own tv, Connect the wires on my own stereo system, sew my clothes, cook delicious food, put furniture together, balance my bank accounts, etc.
I won't drive unless i know exactly where I'm going.
I try to eat every 3 hours so that's why i like things planned out in my day so I'm prepared & take care of my health the way i want to.
Last minute decisions can lead to missed opportunities, chaos, unhealthy habits, or price hikes.
In a Relationship:
The relationship I end up will start as a friendship bc I expect the person I'm in a romantic relationship to also be my friend. Sex will come after I'm in a relationship with you. The beginning is the foundation for a meaningful marriage, not a 2-3 year relationship. I like to START with the END in mind.
I enjoy deep and/or intellectual conversations about everything in life, as well as joking around. A lot of times I like to be the devils advocate only because I like to view every situation from different perspectives.
Our shared values are my 1st priority. Chemistry (attractiveness, good/intelligent conversation), is a second runner up.
If you truly are a respectable guy with character, then time will tell, and what you tell me, vs. what I see, and experience around you, can be different, and I expect to match. Actions speak louder then words. Say all you want to me, but I will be watching your actions.
I think every person and situation is unique. If I choose to be in a relationship, it's going to be with our future in mind.
Movies: This Means War, Limitless, Sweet Home Alabama, Taken, Shooter, 12 Rounds, Good Will Hunting, Step Brothers, Elf, & Armegedon
Shows: Lie to Me, House, Doctors, Dr. OZ., Shark Tank, Tosh.0 & The Soup
Music: Pop, Dance, Alternative, Soft Rock, & Country