a guy who is healthy, active, self-confident, loving, trustworthy, loyal, open (joys, fears, concerns, love, worries, people), happy, and fun to be with.
Most importantly, emotionally balanced and complete.
Attractive to me is: a clear jaw line, clean cut, well groomed, not hairy, clean/straight teeth, no tats on neck, or hands, and a nice smile. Anywhere between muscular and lean. Taller then me. English is your 1st language, or extremely well with it.
My type of guy would look like: Chris Pine, Channing Tatum, Paul Walker and Bradley Cooper
Loyal, Responsible, Loving, Caring, Fun, Friendly, Adventurous, Trustworthy, Athletic, Honest, Aware, Creative, Curious, Courteous, Conscientious, Driven, Organized, Clean, Reliable, Accountable, Persistent, Smart, and Poised.
I resist and will shut off anyone who tries to control me or keep me in check. I'm open to do things that come from love, not fear.
Insecurity is a turn off so I'd like someone who's dealt with and healed their pain and not expect me to "fix", or "fill" them.
I was born and raised in Chatsworth, the San Fernando Valley, L.A. CA
I've also lived in PA, NC, SC, VA, TX, and Japan.
I love traveling, exploring, and adventure (because I'm curious and like to have fun).
I graduated from the Art Institute of Los Angeles, with a BS in Media and Animation Design, in Sep '07.
While a college student, I was a personal trainer, for 4 years and I still prefer to eat healthy like the Paleo Diet, but will splurge when I PMS. :) (no I don't get moody)
I enjoy reading (practical) self improvement, relationship, millionaire, and health books.
I just got my ebook published! "STOP! Don't Get Married... YET!" :) http://www.amazon.com/dp/B007OEVFPY
I grew up drawing and playing sports and still enjoy them today.
In a Relationship:
I enjoy deep and/or intellectual conversations about everything in life, as well as joking around. They stimulate me, & think it's fascinating and more meaningful.
Chemistry (attractiveness), is only a factor in the grand scheme of things, & not enough for me.
If you truly are a respectable guy, then time will tell, and what you tell me, vs. what I see, and experience around you, can be different.
I decide to move forward with a guy after I know the person under the 1st impression= openness and genuine.
I think every person and situation is unique. If I choose to be in a relationship, it's going to be with our future in mind.
Movies: This Means War, Limitless, Sweet Home Alabama, Taken, Shooter, 12 Rounds, Good Will Hunting, Step Brothers, Elf, & Armegedon
Shows: Lie to Me, House, Doctors, Dr. OZ., Shark Tank, Tosh.0 & The Soup
Music: Pop, Dance, Alternative, Soft Rock, & Country
Jason Mraz, I Won't Give Up - (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1-4u9W-bns)
Jason Mraz, Lucky - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=acvIVA9-FMQ&ob=av2e)
George Straight, I Cross My Heart - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLkSfdn4z1g&feature=related)
Sheryl Crow, Are You Strong Enough to be My Man- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_bxE3W1RTz8)