As I am still working my free time is usually based on exercise and staying healthy. I enjoy road biking, golfing, yoga, walks on the beach, movies, concert, the harbor, kayaking, and just sitting enjoying friends company. I also love dancing, swing, cha-cha, big band is my favorite. I also enjoy jazz, country western, blues, everything but hard rock, sorry. I enjoy dressing up for dinner, but really prefer a nice pair of jeans and a sexy top and heels. That's where I am most comfortable. I have a good sense of humor, enjoy getting to know new people and seeing what makes them tick. I don't seem to fit any particular box as far as personality, just me in my own unique way, will have to meet me to find out.
First date would be possibly taking a beach chair to the harbor and just talking. Or riding bikes,or taking a walk. Not big on Starbucks, that seems to be the usual, lets be unusual.