I'm looking for someone that has similar interests because people who play together stay together ;^D I'm not one to waste time in relationships and can sum up someone pretty fast as to whether or not there is potential. Why waste someone else's time or mislead them if you just don't feel that connection? Life's a breath and I'm a third exhaled to get philosophical on the matter. I can't believe I'm as old as I am and I certainly don't feel my age. When someone asks me how old I am, I usually respond with "mentally or physically". I've never been the player type and I guess you could say that I've always been looking for marriage material but just haven't found the one. I would rather be single than unhappy and really don't mind being by myself unlike my older brother. He always has to have someone in his life or he'll get depressed and so he will drag out these relationships for years when it's obvious that they wont lead to marriage. Not my style. I am never bored and really hate to hear this word, especially from someone I am dating. There's a difference in wanting to go do something and not being able to find anything to do. Get in the kitchen and open up a cook book and experiment for goodness sake! Come do some experimenting on me then :P Bake us some cookies or play on the computer and stop complaining...lol I dated a girl who had ADD that didn't want to stay on medication and this is what I dealt with constantly to make you understand my last statements better. Did I mention I have a funny sarcastic personality?
Seriously though, I can't date you if you have no hobbies or if you're easily bored. It just wont work out. Been there done that. You'll expect me to entertain you all the time and will feel neglected when I work on things I enjoy or wish to improve upon. That is unless...you like doing the same things as me :) Sure...there's a time for togetherness, but I still need my man cave time too since I am the creative type. I know women are from Venus and men are from Mars and that our interests are different, but I need someone who likes at least 40% of the things I'm in to. Preferably a higher percentage! My personality type is INTP by Myers Briggs. The opposites attract thing just hasn't seemed to work for me. I've met some people who I truly wonder how they've remained married because they seemed to have no common interests. I think the way they managed to stay together was they both seemed to do whatever they wanted as if they were just roommates. Do you really just want a roommate type of relationship with bedroom benefits? :P
So here are some of my hobbies that keep me entertained. I grow bonsai trees, play guitar and some piano, do various types of artwork from wood carving to painting, I fly remote control airplanes across from Sandhills Mall if you've ever seen them flying. I love watching sci-fi and action movies. Any kind of fantasy movie intrigues me. I don't like watching horror movies anymore because they give me nightmares that make me wet the bed. Just kidding ;^D but they have pushed the boundaries so far now that it's like watching an actual murder...and....I just don't like putting that kind of stuff in my head anymore. Someone who is somewhat artsy, crafty and hippieish would suit me best. I'm a tree hugger type and care about the environment. I see beauty in all creatures, even the creepy crawly! I rarely keep up with or follow sports and would rather work on something else instead of watching a game. I will watch big games like the SuperBowl...etc but otherwise could care less. This stems from childhood because my older brother was always glued to the t.v watching sports when I wanted to go outside and play them instead. I prefer more mental stimulation like playing a video game than watching a ball game any day.
I'd consider myself more of a homebody person now. I do go out every now and then with some friends, but I'm over the party every weekend phase. I try to eat as healthily as possible, but still eat a lot of fast food for convenience. I always try to order the healthier fast food items and will substitute a side salad for french fries where I can ;^) Do you ever wonder if french fries have any nutritional value? I mean they must when you think about how often they're served and the government hasn't passed regulations that force fast food chains to offer OTHER SIDE ITEM CHOICES! Surely the government wants the people to be healthy and long lived???
I would definitely like to grow more of my own food in the future and currently have a garden and some fruit trees. There's nothing like knowing that your vegetables are pesticide free. Don't get me started on Monsanto -_- I'm going to build a big greenhouse down the road to grow some exotic fruit like "Purple Mangosteen" which is only considered one of the most delicious fruits in the world! I'm going to build a chicken coop here soon and one day want to get a "Flow Hive." Google that invention if you haven't seen it. I really need a woman who has an interest in this kind of life style and who can help me out on the farm.lol Literally, I live on 4 acres and can't do everything by myself. If you want to be a stay at home wifey, you can't just sit inside watching movies and painting your nails all day :P
I'm not a member of a gym and really haven't had good experiences when going to them. I feel like a germophobe when up in there using all this sweat tainted equipment. I prefer to get exercise by doing yard work, outdoor activities or by just doing workouts or tai chi movements in my den. One day I hope to stay in shape mainly from sexercising...lol a boy can dream right? I have a broad musical taste and will listen to anything from the Beatles to Nirvana to classical...etc I listen to NPR (91.3) in my car a lot and have learned of some great artists through there. You should check out their nightly Echoes show if you never have. 99.3,90.5 and 102. 3 are some other favorite stations of mine to give you an idea of my musical taste.
Well, I think that I've certainly said a mouthful for you to get an idea of who I am. If you think we have some common interests and want to know more about me then send me a message and we'll go from there :) Best of luck in your search~*
P.S. I don't know why this site reduces the quality of my pictures so much that you can't even make out my teeth. So I guess I'm saying I look better in person??? ;^D
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
We could play a round of golf and then get some food or go to a driving range if you've never played. We could go to Frankies fun park and do some go cart racing or putt putt. We could go bowling, to a shooting range, nature walking, bike riding or just meet for a drink or dinner and a movie. I definitely don't want to go to a dance club until we're a thing, unless you want me bumping and grinding all over that booty! Lol. We'll plan it out together, I think that's always best