Talk, get to know someone a bit over coffee or a drink perhaps. I hate first dates. They are just something to be suffered through, to be honest. The best dates are the later ones...you both have a great time, and get to be more yourselves.
I like to laugh, have fun, and hear people's stories. I love comedy clubs, comedy shows, talking about good books. I used to put politics on this list of things I like to talk about, but I'm finding that the current atmosphere of nasty mudslinging rhetoric is disheartening to me, angers me and it's better if I don't talk politics until the election is over. The entire country scares the crap out of me right now anyway.
Btw, if you message me, and I don't respond - please don't get angry with me and send me nasty messages. There are certain aspects of a person's profile that I can tell that I wouldn't be compatible with, and so I don't want to waste your time. Its nothing personal. If you send me nasty messages...then that just proves to me I made the right choice by not pursuing the acquaintance.
I've had a lot of questions about what "aspects" I am so quick to judge on, so here are a few: (as previously stated) anyone who refers to himself as a "good ol' southern boy/gentlemen", anyone who claims that their interests are "God" or "NASCAR" or "Romancin'", anyone separated (you are still married, boys!) and finally anyone with a username that should belong to an internet pornstar (2hot4u, FelmeHard, LckMeNow, Tonguekissurkat, etc.). ---true story.
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