At first I can come across a little guarded. I'm not shy, I just don't wear my heart on my sleeve. But once you get to know me you'll find that I have a soft mushy center. Just like an M&M, I may have a hard candy shell but sweet and mushy on the inside.
I'm a fairly down to earth easy going girl. Of course, that depends on your definition of easy going. I don't mind getting dirty, 4 wheeling, fishing, stuff like that. But I'm also a girl, so I don't like spiders or things that slither. I like having fun and goofing off, being silly. I can be a lady when the situation calls for it. I believe in having a healthy physical relationship but have a romantic side to me as well. I'm intelligent and need someone that can challenge me. I'm willing to try just about anything once and can appreciate a new adventure. I prefer bars to clubs, jeans to dresses, and a lake over a pool. I can be kind of a tomboy, I'll never deny that. But the man I'm looking for will understand that underneath that tomboy exterior I want to be treated like a woman. Someone that knows that just because you may not see me cry doesn't mean I don't want to. Someone that can appreciate that I can change a tire, refinish a piece of furniture, bait a hook and shoot damn well with a 9mm but also know that at the end of the day we can cuddle up for the softer moments and love that he's the only one that gets to see that part of me.
I can be a little bit of a smartass. I have a quick wit and love to laugh. It sounds so silly and so cliche but its the truth...A sense of humor is important to me. Or at least someone that can put up with mine. I've always thought I wanted a guy that is a lot like me but I've come to realize that I need someone that complements me, someone that takes my edge off. I seriously hope that makes sense to someone.
I spent most of my life being serious and planning for tomorrow. Well, tomorrow is here! I've learned there is a time for work and a time for play. I'm looking for a friend, lover, playmate. Sound good to you?
I apologize for the pics. I'm normally the one taking the pictures and try to avoid being the subject at all costs! But trust me, I'm cute! And have a killer smile!
Update: I've met a couple of nice guys during my time on here but, sadly, it hasn't worked out. Schedules, crazy ex's (theirs, not mine) and misc other reasons. But I remain hopeful. I'm not looking to get serious right away but I am looking for something stable. Relatively drama free. I'm too old to have to wonder what's going on. I'm ready for open and honest. And please, PLEASE be over your ex!
One more thing: have time to date. I work and have kids so I don't have 24/7 availability, but I can find time to spend with someone. I hope you can too.