If I said Hi then I'm interested. I'm happy to write more if you are too.
"If you can't handle me at my worst you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
I like having fun and goofing off, being silly. I can be a lady when the situation calls for it. I believe in having a healthy physical relationship but have a romantic side to me as well. I'm intelligent and need someone that can challenge me. I'm willing to try just about anything once and can appreciate a new adventure. I prefer bars to clubs, jeans to dresses, and a lake over a pool. I can be kind of a tomboy, I'll never deny that. But the man I'm looking for will understand that underneath that tomboy exterior I want to be treated like a lady. Someone that knows that just because you may not see me cry doesn't mean I don't want to. Someone that can appreciate that I can change a tire, refinish a piece of furniture, bait a hook and shoot damn well with a 9mm but also know that at the end of the day we can cuddle up for the softer moments and love that he's the only one that gets to see that part of me.
I can be a little bit of a smartass. I have a quick wit and love to laugh. It sounds so silly and so cliche but its the truth...A sense of humor is important to me. Or at least someone that can put up with mine. I definitely have a type A personality. I need a man that is type A+. My Mom always told me I was a strong woman, and I need an even stronger man...good luck! I was never really sure if that was supposed to be a compliment.
I spent most of my life being serious. I've recently learned there is a time for work and a time for play. I'm looking for a friend, lover, playmate. Sound good to you?
I apologize for the pics. I'm normally the one taking the pictures and try to avoid being the subject at all costs! If nothing else I have a killer smile!
Update: I've met a couple of nice guys during my time on here but, sadly, it hasn't worked out. Schedules, crazy ex's (theirs, not mine) and misc other reasons. But I remain hopeful. I'm not looking to get serious right away but I am looking for something stable. Relatively drama free. I'm too old to have to wonder what's going on. I'm ready for open and honest. And please, PLEASE be over your ex!
One more thing: have time to date. I work and have kids so I don't have 24/7 availability, but I can find time to spend with someone. I hope you can too. We spend so much time waiting for the time to do (fill in the blank). We always think there will be time, I just need to take care of whatever. But there's always another whatever. Next thing we know years have passed and we think "Wow, where did all the time go?" I'm tired of wasting time...let's make this happen!