"I apologize to you if I don't seem eager to jump into a forced, akward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, wondering Do I have food on my face? Am I eating, am I talking too much? Are they talking enough? Am I interested? I'm not really interested. Should I play like I'm interested? But I'm not that interested. But I think she might be interested. But do I want to be interested? Now she's not interested. So all of the sudden I'm starting to get interested. And when am I supposed to kiss her. Do I have to wait for the door cuz' then it's akward. It's like Well, goodnight. Do you do like the ass-out hug? Where you hug each other and the ass sticks out because you're trying not to get too close. Or do you just go right in and kiss em' on the lips? Or you don't kiss em' at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering , Are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions?"
That quote from Wedding Crashers pretty much sums up the awkwardness of dating. Plus it's hilarious.
So a little about me. I'm the kind of guy that enjoys the outdoors, being active and I love adventure. Traveling is high on my list of fun things to do. All inclusive destinations are my favorite, especially if there is a beach involved. I like going out for nights on the town, but appreciate relaxing at home for dinner and a movie. Family and friends are my life blood. I have two children. My son is nine and my daughter is seven. I have a good balance of time with them and time to persue a relationship.
First date should be casual, no pressure. Meet for drinks, coffee, lunch, etc. If we hit it off we can go from there.