lettucepray: Dear POF, More gender&seeking options, please.
Smokes Occasionally with Thin body type
Alameda, California
46 year old Female, 5' 9" (175cm), Other
Mixed Race, Scorpio
lettucepray wants to date but nothing serious.
Bachelors Degree
public relations /health care

my best friend, Josh, and me at my cousins wedding

I am Seeking a Man For Friends
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 1 year How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets No Pets Second Language Other

About Me
I MADE the cake I'm holding in the picture, including the whipped cream.....AND the strawberries.....ok, not the strawberries, but I DID
clean and cut them, and then lovingly (and quite skillfully....don't you think) arranged them.

One of my FAVORITE things to do is people-watch....and roll my eyes.....then reprimand myself. ( Oh, who am I kidding??)
making myself and others laugh has become an essential skill that i employ daily.... usually, though, i am my own best audience (and by that I mean most people just don't get it).

and by "all my kids are 18+" i mean my only child is 18.. just the one. no lie.
Lie. Now THERE'S a word...

First Date
the most effective way i've found to navigate my way through the initial first-date jitters is to walk somewhere... anywhere. beaches are nice.... so is muir woods....AND there are plenty of funky little neighborhoods in the bay area...see, THIS way any eye-rolling by either party is somewhat obscured.
PLUS, this weeds out those who would claim to be "really fit, but still carrying some winter weight" (you know who you are). If you're reading this, thinking
"she's odd/she's a b&@!!/that sounds boring/walk?!,"move along please.