Good day to all. Ill first start this out with a big disclaimer: I am looking for someone to date. Then marry. There, now that that is out of the way.
I am 31 now. I have been married before as I am sure you saw. So that means that I have had some life under me. It does mean that I know what I am looking for and what I will not put up with. I will not say it was a mistake, but more of a life lesson.
I do want a wife and children. As I have none, I am starting to get that urge finally. I have always wanted to improve myself and my life before having children. I think I am just about there.
I have a job that I love. It is a little hard on my "other" as I do work out of the country quite a bit. I am not IN the military, I just work with them. But when I am home, it is truly QUALITY time.
When not working I am taking classes and hopefully I will have a stateside job in not too long. Def. not the same pay, but it would be MORE than worth it to be able to come home and hold soneone in my arms at the end of a long day.
I own my own house, and have my own vehicle.
I do like going out on the town and I am more than ok staying in lounging on the couch watching some silly ass movie. Or...dare I say it?! Maybe even one of those 'chick flicks' (depending on how much you pressure me into it :)'.
Of course, you have to be able to LAUGH and make me smile every day. I know, I am demanding. At heart I am a geek, but it gives people something to feel good about. Oh, and you must have a show or two you really like...for me to watch with you...and make fun of you for watching it!! :)
I do have ambition and drive. I am always trying to better myself and help those around me. There is so much I want out of life. Afterall, life is an adventure. What good is an adventure if you cannot share it with those whom are special to you?!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A picnic? Maybe some rollerskating? Lets go out to a park and swing for awhile or try a swing class. I am up to hop in the car and drive for awhile. Maybe stopping somewhere and unloading a tent and have an impromptu camping day. Even better, lets hop on a flight to New Orleans for the weekend. Lets go for an early happy hour and ride the bus all day chatting each other up.