4th update 100lbs down. 30 more then done
3rd update 88lbs down 40 more to Reach my goal weight
2nd update alert down 75 lbs and counting... hip hip hooray.
Update alert: down 66lbs and counting yippie.
So before I get started in telling about myself. I ask of you this. If you are wanting to message me and get to know me, and we exchanged numbers, I ask that you are okay with my asking questions. I am equally okay with questions. how else do you get to know someone with out questions? I have had problems on here with that subject sorry.
SO YES I AM DOING THIS IN ALL CAPS, BUT ITS FOR A REASON. I WANT YOU TO KNOW ME. I REALIZE ITS PROBABLY THE MOST HONEST ANYONE WOULD BE ON THIS SITE, BUT HEY I BELIEVE HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY. I AM TAKING A CHANCE BY BEING SO HONEST, BECAUSE I AM SO TIRED OF COMING ACROSS MEN THAT REALLY TO BE QUIET FRANK ARE JERKS, OR SAY ONE THING BUT MEAN SOMETHING ELSE.
So I am going to start out by saying this.. I am looking for someone who can love me for me. Someone who can see the person inside, and the person on the outside, as a beautiful woman. Also, if you say your a christian, but your only saying that to see who you get, and it really doesn't mean anything to you then please pass me by. I am looking for someone who values there faith, and loves people. That is important to me.. If you were to give this woman a shot you would be finding a good Woman. I am a woman of quality, I am a woman of integrity, confidence, love, compassion and truth etc.. I love to laugh and have a good old fashioned time.. That is important to me. I am down to earth and easy going.. I am not the type that has to party, and drink and do drugs to have fun. I love to travel and be by any body of water. Water is like top on my list of relaxation. I like to BBQ, camp, play board games, card games, do photography, dream, sing, explore, go on adventures, especially adventure parks... Those are my favorite.
Guys I am not looking for a one night stand. I am looking for a quality relationship, one that could lead to marriage. I hold true to my faith.. I believe love can be shared in many forms and many ways. I am looking to find someone, that is willing to respect my wishes and desires to not have sex before marriage. I believe that sex is important don't get me wrong, but I also believe it is sacred, and important to abstain until marriage.... I am looking for someone that we will look 50 years down the road, and we will be alive holding hands on the porch, talking about our life, and grand kids.. that to me is something to look forward to.
I also believe that honesty is the best policy. So I want to give everyone a heads up and let you know about me and my situation. that way nothing is left in the dark. At this current and present time Im on Social Security disability. I do my best to try and make money on the side when I can. I am currently recovering from back surgery.
I love to do photography. I eventually want to have a business doing that. I have many dreams that I would love to share with you. I am a good woman, and I have a lot to offer someone. Most importantly I know how to love, I am devoted, and faithful. So Lets chat and have some laughs.
So you can email me here or catch me at y hoo mess at living4him21. or mail me at reddinggirl1979 a y hoo. HOpe to hear from you.
IT would be nice to go out for coffee, and maybe a walk. Or a nice dinner would be great. Somewhere where we can get to know one another. Or dinner and then maybe go play pool, or miniture golf something like that. Those are some thoughts.