Update alert: down 58lbs and counting yippie.
So before I get started in telling about myself. I ask of you this. If you are wanting to message me and get to know me, and we exchanged numbers, I ask that you are okay with my asking questions. I am equally okay with questions. how else do you get to know someone with out questions. Thanks
SO YES I AM DOING THIS IN ALL CAPS, THIS LITTLE PART, BUT ITS FOR A REASON. I WANT WHOEVER STOPS BY TO LOOK AT MY PROFILE, I WOULD ASK THAT YOU GIVE ME A LITTLE TIME TO READ THROUGH IT, BECAUSE I WANT YOU TO MAKE AN INFORMED DECISION. I WANT YOU TO KNOW ME. I REALIZE ITS PROBABLY THE MOST HONEST ANYONE WOULD BE ON THIS SITE, BUT HEY I BELIEVE HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY. I AM TAKING A CHANCE BY BEING SO HONEST, BECAUSE I AM SO TIRED OF COMING ACROSS MEN THAT REALLY TO BE QUIET FRANK ARE JERKS, OR SAY ONE THING BUT MEAN SOMETHING ELSE. So I am going to start out by saying this.. If you are someone that is superficial, someone that is arrogant, thinks your better then me, and someone who thinks that you are the best thing that walks on this earth, Then please pass me by. I don't need you in my life. I need someone who can love me for me. Someone who can see the person inside, and the person on the outside, as a beautiful woman. Someone who is of quality and of value. that is the most important part to me. Oh and hey, if you say your a christian, but your only saying that to see who you get, and it really doesn't mean anything to you then please pass me by. I am looking for someone who values there faith, and loves people. That is important to me.. If you were to give this girl a shot you would be finding a good Woman. I am a woman of quality, I am a woman of integrity, confidence, love, compassion, and... The list goes on... lol.. I love to laugh and have a good old fashioned time.. That is important to me. I am down to earth and easy going. I like to laugh and have a good time. and I am talking about the kind of laugh that its deep down, and your stomach hurts and you end up crying.. Thats when you know its good. I am not the type that has to party, and drink and do drugs to have fun. I love to travel and be by any body of water. Water is like top on my list of relaxation. I like to BBQ, camp, play board games, card games, do photography, dream, sing, explore, go on adventures, especially adventure parks... Those are my favorite.
I haven't had much luck on this site so far. All I seem to be coming across is men that are rude, hateful and or wanting to jump in the sack with me. Guys I am not looking for a one night stand. I am looking for a quality relationship, one that could possibly lead to marriage. I would also like to clear things up here so there is nothing you are confused about.. Because my experience has not been good on this, so I might as well get things out of the way while I can. I hold true to my faith, and believe in what the word says... I believe love can be shared in many forms and many ways. But there is one thing I am not willing to compromise on. I am looking to find someone, that is willing to respect my wishes and desires to not have sex before marriage. I believe that sex is important don't get me wrong, but I also believe it is sacred, and important to abstain until marriage.... I am looking for someone that we will look 50 years down the road, and we will be alive holding hands on the porch, talking about our life, and grand kids.. that to me is something to look forward to.
I also believe that honesty is the best policy. So I want to give everyone a heads up and let you know about me and my situation. that way nothing is left in the dark. At this current and present time, I am not able to work. I am injured, so I am currently on SSI disability. Now that does not mean I am in a wheelchair, or can't walk or anything like that. I just deal with pain in my body. I have four bulging discs in my back and three in my neck. I also have fibromalgia. I know that seems like a lot,and I know that it might be hard to take. But I can walk, I sometimes walk with a cane, but I can talk, I can think, I can all that. I can still have fun.. I try not to let my pain determine who I am... It has been discouraging for me, because I do have things in life that I want to do.. ANd plan on doing. Like for example I love to do photography. When I get asked to do that, then I do that. I eventually want to have a business doing that. I have dreams that I would love to share with you. One being I would love to open a ranch for troubled teens, and I would like to help them get on there feet, get healing, learn about there selves, teach them life skills, do horse therapy all that. I have a heart for kids, would love to do something for youth with who ever I am to be with.. Hope this doesn't scare anybody off, but if it does it just means your not the right one. I am a good woman, I do have a lot to offer someone. Most importantly I know how to love, and I love hard core. I am devoted, and faithful. I am faithful, and love to have fun and enjoy laughing. Lets chat and have some laughs.
Anyways I would love an opportunity to talk with you.. So you can email me here or catch me at y hoo mess at living4him21. or mail me at reddinggirl1979 a y hoo. HOpe to hear from you.