What I want you to be:
You have a sense humor and aren’t easily offended. You have a professional job, aren’t living paycheck to paycheck, and are comfortable being independent. Driving 4-wheelers in the mud sounds very unappealing to you. You’re more of the go-with-the flow type than high-maintenance type. You don’t care what my or anyone’s religious beliefs are. You don’t mind a quiet evening at home watching TV, but also are up for a night out on the town. You have solid social skills, class, and common sense. You don’t have to be extroverted; just someone who can get along with people and won’t embarrass me at social functions. You lean more towards being a modern woman rather than old-fashioned and are looking more for an equal relationship rather than one where you’d be submissive. You are not passionate about conservative politics. You don’t smoke or at least only occasionally smoke. You understand “everything in moderation” and are at least somewhat conscientious of your health. You have some depth to you. You don’t want a big country boy. You wrote more than two generic sentences in your profile because you actually care about trying to attract the right people rather than getting your ego boosted by mass emails from losers.
What you want me to be:
A stable professional who knows how to act in social situations. Someone with a positive outlook who doesn’t let the little things in life get him down. Someone who is fairly easy-going yet very hard working and responsible. Someone who likes to do a variety of activities including trying new restaurants, movies, outdoor festivals, live music, LSU sports, plays, museums, parades, daytrips to New Orleans, traveling, happy hours, and cooking.
If you agree with a lot of what I’ve said, then let me hear from you. I’m not expecting a lot of responses as I’m choosing quality over quantity and am hoping to find someone whom I have awesome chemistry with.
A first date is simply to see how we interact. Online dating sites have their benefits, but you really don’t get a good feel for someone until you meet them in person. So a casual dinner or maybe just drinks to see how we click.