HAPPILY TAKEN. Good luck =]
I guess the thing to know about me is that I'm looking for an easy fit. Someone who can come into my life and not make it feel more complicated or more tiring. I don't want a drama filled relationship because my life has had too much drama already. I want to feel freed and stabilized by being with someone, not trapped and crazy. I will wait as long as it takes to find this.
My job is very important to me, and you should know that at some point it, or the people I work with, will probably come before you. As will my family and some of my friends.
What I'm not interested in: Scraggly facial hair, unkempt appearance, long/dyed hair, unemployment, no sense of humor, too much testosterone, liars, not over your ex.
Please message me if you are a kind, decent, open, caring person who will challenge me and not be afraid for me to challenge you. If you want to be in a long term, committed relationship. If you can be there for me through my hardships, and you want someone who will accept yours. If you're not afraid of a person with a bit of a rocky past. If you want someone who will want to make you smile every day, message me.
I think a guy should plan the first date, but I'm pretty traditional. Dinner or coffee, mini golf or a nice nighttime walk, whatever works, whatever we both think will be an interesting time. -Please don't message me forever without asking me out. I will lose interest and stop talking to you. We're here to MEET people, not just message them!-
Note: I will not make the first move. I will not ask you if you want to meet up, or even ask you for your phone number. Call me old fashioned, but I just think the guy should make the first move, and take the lead. So if you are interested in me after chatting on here for a while, you will have to initiate and plan the first 'date' or 'meeting' or whatever you want to call it. Just keep it in mind =]